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If you dated someone for a while, and you actually loved this person and thought they loved you. And you found out they cheated or were cheating on you with someone of the same sex (boyfriend with a boy, girlfriend with a girl). Would you out them?
I feel like I would be so heartbroken and pissed off that I might. Yes ik outing people is wrong but so is cheating.
This isn’t happening to me, I saw an episode of Second Chance and this Guy was cheating on his girlfriend by going on a date with another guy while she was away at college. And The reason he didn’t tell her was because he was “too embarrassed” because he didn’t want his family or school to know he might be Bi.
I was personally really pissed off that he was making it more about his sexuality rather than the fact that he was cheating WITH ANOTHER FUCKING GUY. The fact she took him back is beyond me.
Im curious to know how would you handle it? Would you tell everyone why you guys broke up? Or would you keep his/her secret?

Girls, have you experienced this?
Guys, what am i doing wrong?

It seems like the guys who are the most straightforward are players or assholes!

I rarely reject anyone, cos i like to give people a chance. But at the same time, i never ask anyone out, but i do flirt with them
And all i get is guys staring at me, but i assume they aren't interested cos they're friendlier towards other girls.

One guy, was act hot and cold the entire year. He was being really friendly, the next day, being a cold unfriendly asshole and ignoring me when i say hi. Then getting angry when i talk to other guys. He also tells his friends not to talk to me, probably cos it makes him jealous. Then i find out that he has a girlfriend that he's in love with!!

Yet he tells his uncle "i really like Keziah, but i dunno, cos i tried saying hi to her but she didn't seem interested, i dunno what to do!"
But i dont see ANY effort coming from him, except from staring at me. He also tells other people (who im friends/aquaintances with) that he thinks im beautiful etc.
But it's really shitty, cos he has a girlfriend, i feel like he wants to mess with people's feelings!

Another guy, I went on a date with yesterday, he got only £10 out the cash point, took me to McDonald's and then got mad when i wanted a latte for £1.60, rather than a 50p orange juice. Then we went to the pub, and made me pay for the drinks "cos he has no money left and it was ONLY fair". Then he took me down a dodgy road and insisted that we sit on a bench, then he said "what do you think of couples who kiss and make out on public benches?" and i said that "its not my type of thing". Then i sat on another bench away from him and he called me a bitch, then i said "ok bye". I wasn't that interested in the guy, but i thought i might as well give him a chance. Also, i spent more money on him, than he did on me! I think he only wanted to use me!