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I went out with this girl for a bit. She's had some hard things happen, and she told me she thought being around someone more positive like me would help, but she had been involved with some messed up people and even dipped into cocaine at one point.
During our dates, she said she really liked me, and liked how she felt with me. But she cancelled a few dates and sent me this:
hey, so i got my schedule and like i'm just gonna be really busy for the next few days, so I don't know when we'll really find a time that works for both of us... so I thought i'd just message you what I was gonna say... like, I think you're a really great guy, and you're definitely going to make somebody really happy one day, but it just can't be me... i just don't want a relationship right now, or honestly anytime soon.. I really wanna focus on myself for the next few years.. and I just have to be straight up about it.. you're awesome, and if you ever need a friend let me know, but that's all i'm gonna be able to be to you, a friend


I was pretty disappointed, because we were supposed to spend New year's together. But I told her, because I took it as face value, that I hope things change in the future, and we can try again.

I got on tinder to try to meet someone, and I found her on there. Her bio just said she'd looking for people to chill with. But I got instantly pissed off. I feel like she lied to me.
Was she just trying to get rid of me?

I'm not a member of this church, but I do volunteer work in the kitchen a lot of weekends. With girls, yeah I act like the player kind, and I'm GOOD at being able to play it off on girls when it comes to their looks. Well last weekend, this 1 blonde was in the kitchen helping too. I found out she's 18. She's like 5'7... and REALLY thick! I notice she had on sky blue norts (nike tempo shorts), fitted ones. I also noticed she has a SUPER cute face, so I tried my hardest to tally ignore her. I was standing to the side, and a little bit behind her, at the ice machine. She was at the counter, in my clear view. I tried HARD, but finally after like 3 seconds I'm like thinking in my mind *ugggh, I can't!* so my eyes went down fast, straight to her upper legs and I gasped UHHHH? My mouth fell open HARD. She has cellulite, and is too thick! I was stuck, and my eyes went upper legs, booty, back to the upper legs, and the whole time I was Oooooo!!! I was hoping she didn't notice how easily she had won against me, so I looked up, and had sorta faced the side towards me, and was TOTALLY straight faced. I cringed, frustrated as hell! After I finished what I was doing I had to go behind her to get to the dining room.. and I looked down at her upper legs again, cringed hard and mumbled..."uggh, damn u!" I was just mad. I can't beat her, ugh!! I thought I was good at it! Truth is, my ego is gutted. I found out she's gonna be volunteering there for at least until spring break. Should I do any of these, I mean, would it be right?