Search Results: is he sincere

I'm So very sick and extremely tired of gold diggers left and right and everywhere. They are all around and plentiful! Whenever i see girls i wonder if they are gold diggers in disguise. No matter how beautiful and open they are i always have this safety mechanism in the back of my head.

first they trick you into being in love you and being attracted to you. Then after some time they understand you don't have much money and you are kind of constrained. Then they ghost you completely.

money is what makes them interested in you. No matter how sincere you are, no matter how much of a good person you are to everyone, no matter how well you treat them, money is the key factor for them. And then you are left alone with a broken heart and a whole bathtub of tears.
why am i allowing it to be doing this to myself? If money matters so much, then what's the difference between a girlfriend and a p r o s t i t u t e, other than the former being only yours and the latter being public to everyone?

When I hear someone say "We are taking a break (or a time out) on our relationship to work on personal problems," I am always skeptical that both partners are being honest. Quite often, that is a way to break up that introduces the idea of a break up gradually so that the other partner is not overwhelmed at once with rejection and the partner initiating the break up can try to escape some guilt for breaking up.

I also realize that a couple could say this and both be very sincere in their belief that they are breaking up to allow time for personal growth. I don't really see why you would need to take a break from the relationship for that purpose; your partner should be there to support you in good times and in bad times and they should be able to help you with whatever it is that you need to do. They can certainly give you some "alone time" without the necessity of breaking up. However, I know that there is some popular notion that "temporarily" breaking up is an appropriate way to approach these circumstances.

What is your experience with temporary break ups to work on personal problems? Was it an excuse? Was it a valid reason? Did it work?