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When my boyfriend and I started dating I asked him how many girlfriends he had before me. His answer was 1. Later I found out there was someone else. When I asked him how many girls he kissed he told me 5. I feel that its important to know your partners past because that way no one can say shit to you that you dont already know. 2days ago I found out he had so many more gfs and claimed yo not remember any of them which is bullshit. He responded by asking if I remembered every boyfriend or all the people I kissed.. which I do actually. He got more upset for me and said any person would think I am overreacting. But he never ever wants to speak about them or anyone in his past and when he does it is ow clear that he lied/lies about them. DO I HAVE A RIGHT TO FEEL HURT HERE? I dont even believe him about how many women he has slept with either. So how can I trust him when he has been lying to me for 8 years. He says everything before me doesn't matter.. but to me it does. WHAT DOÈS ALL OF THIS SAY ABOUT HIM. CAN SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME...

I know its a stupid thing to be bothered about but it is bothering me.
I can see when my boyfriend is currently active but when he claims to go offline, I can't see the status of when he's last active. you can usually see it, like an "active 5 mins ago" or something, but his chat doesn't say anything. he said he didn't turn his active status off. could he be lying? or is it possible this is simply a bug on the app and he's actually telling the truth?

I found out he cheated in Oct 2018, then stopped and then resumed cheating several times just last month. His mother never liked me and always critcized me. She gossiped about me to others. I had to still be polite and try getting along with this fake, liar for his sick.

Now that he cheated, I cussed the hell out of him. His mother heard it all and started with an ''I knew you were never good enough''. I replied with an ''Oh STFU, f*** both of you, I don't have to pretend to get along with you anymore. I never liked you either, you fake, lying gossiper. I only did it for your son's sake. Go f*** yourself. Same for your son.

Recently I have started to notice that my boyfriend phone keeps getting messages/ notification and he is typing often while I’m on call with him. Due to Covid I’m back to my home country and I can’t meet him until I go back. Sometimes he laughs at the message and he wakes up when the phone rings and replys instantly often ( we sleep on call ) I’m worried because I think he is cheating when I confronted he said it’s his cousins in a group chat but I don’t think so. even in past I have seen him texting other girls infront of me. He has always been protective of his phone and doesn’t like it when I see it. He although recently says he regret talking to other girls in past as they were not real but I’m real with him and he only talks to me when it comes to females. But I think he is lying as he has lied to me in past too.

Raven is 34 years old and a single mother of a 5 year old girl nt Dina. Raven's boyfriend, Zane, is 28 years old. He recently got out of prison for selling drugs and armed robbery. Raven is working on getting her master's degree. She has 2 full time jobs and gives Zane an allowance, in addition to that she takes the bus everywhere she goes. One day Raven walked in on Zane telling Dina how to lie and look innocent so she could do less homework at school, and how to lie convincingly in get more snacks after school. She notices that her daughter is lying more.
A week later she overhead Zion telling Dina it's okay to lie if it gets you nice things. Raven still loves Zion.

Hello, my relationship is about 2 years long with my boyfriend. At the beginning, he was lying to me a lot about important things along with doing suspicious stuff like giving another girl his jacket (he didn’t find that action in itself wrong, he viewed it as being a helpful friend), and romantic history. I didn’t know that he was lying then, and thought our relationship was going great even though I was a little more emotional during that time. He came clean because one of his friends told me 10 months in, and he apologized for his actions.

Not to sound narcissistic, but I have done a lot for him that he doesn’t appreciate. I have given him gifts and food, not expecting anything in return. I gave him oral and was waiting patiently until he was ready to do the same for me. I had a confrontation with him about not feeling appreciated enough in bed since I do what he wants and even got on birth control he wanted for him. He said he expresses his gratitude in other ways, but all I can respond to that is “how” since he doesn’t do anything outside of the bedroom as well besides hanging out and maybe food here or there.

I also haven’t been the best partner myself recently because I had to contact a male friend he hates to do some heavy lifting at my mom’s house. He was upset that I took that opportunity “away from him” whereas I’ve been asking him everyday on when he’d come but didn’t give me any response to that. He hates every male friend I have, and always makes me feel bad for wanting to hang out with them especially if I haven’t seen them in a while. Is it normal to feel like I haven’t been appreciated enough? He tells me he’s not good enough as well when I try to discuss things of this nature, and I’m tired of it. I’m not sure on what to do because every time I just want reassurance, he makes me feel bad for asking by playing the victim card and turn the tables so it can be about him.