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Search Results: no spark at a date
Do you think that "nice guys" seem to NOT care about if their prospective partner is attracted to HIM?
Being on this site for 2 years now, this is an angle to this "nice guy" thing that hasn't been touched upon. Personally, I would never date someone that I wasn't 100% sure was sexually attracted to me. To me, it seems...
Prof_Don
Master Age: 40 A girl keeps asking me out for a drink. The problem is, I don't know what she wants and if I should accept.
A girl I went to college with keeps asking me out for a drink. We both finished college last spring. During these college years, we talked in real life and chatted online a little, and that's all. I suppose I could claim...
Anonymous
(36-45) Sexually attracted/ no sexual chemistry, she wants me, huh?
Met this girl 10 days ago. She was checking me out at a friends bar I was at. We were eventually introduced by two of my friends who began talking to her. They told me she was checking me out (which I knew) and I needed...
Anonymous
(36-45) He didn't feel the spark after 2 months but thought there was long term potential?
Dated a guy 3 weeks with awkward polite chemistry, the went out exclusively 5 weeks. We got really close, emailed/talked every day and when it ended mutually we separately thought we had lost our best friend in a way....
helen99
Xper 5 Age: 51 Why is it do hard to move on?
Okay so I'll give you a little background here about our relationship. We were both in high school, she was a sophomore and I was a junior. We met through Facebook inadvertantly and sparked a conversation and sure enough,...
Anonymous
(30-35) Should I be in a relationship with someone I feel no spark with?
So, I'm an 18 year old guy and some girls like me. Some are even physically attractive. People are saying I should ask them out, date them, be in a relationship with them, etc. But the thing is, even though I've gotten to...
Anonymous
(30-35) If you don't feel the "spark" on the first date, should you still go on a second date?
I think I've been socialized to feel that if I'm really meant to be with someone, the chemistry will be there from the start -- it won't be forced, or learnt over time like a course you take in school. It should be...
HotPepper302
Xper 4 Age: 37 Why would my ex boyfriend do this?
So it's been about a year since I had dated my ex boyfriend, and I had given him two stuffed animals as a Christmas present after we broke up. Also, after we had broken up we decided to be friends. That didn't work out...
catherinethezebra
Xper 5 Age: 34 Top 5 Ways To Ditch A Bad First Date
So you are on your way to meet up with a new guy or girl for the very first time and you are thinking in your head, "This date could go extremely well or horribly wrong". It is normal to be both anxious and excited about...
maryfincher25
Xper 5 Age: 46 Is it wrong that I want to "play the field" a little?
I've come to know that there is this guy that I know who likes me. He seems nice enough, not really my type, but I've been flirting with him/texting. I even went on a date with him, but I feel no spark, even though he...
Anonymous
(30-35) First date - No chemistry. Do you go for a second date?
Guys and gals, imagine you have a first date. It goes pleasantly enough, and after a couple of drinks, you're both having a laugh at least, and there's no awkwardness to speak of. But for whatever reason, there's no...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Does he even have the right to act upset?
I have 2 exes...the only 2 guys I've been emotionally attached too & they have both hurt me tremendously the first 1 who I can honestly say I "loved more" because I had a stronger connection with...also we dated longer...
Anonymous
(30-35) Should I try again or just let it go, and loose him forever?
So me and this guy were dating for only a month and a half. I know short, but I felt an intense connection with him like no other man. he seemed really insecure and like he had bad experiences with women and even told...
Anonymous
(36-45) Would you try to fix a relationship or just leave?
If you were in a long term relationship (6 years) with someone you were very in love with at one point, but you feel like the spark isn't there anymore, would you tell your partner how you were feeling and try to fix it?...
Anonymous
(36-45) Heart-broken at 40 after break-up....need help!!!
I'm 40. Was in a 1-1/2 year rltshp with guy. Met Nov. 09. We were absolutely GREAT in the beginning. 5 mths later (Apr 10) I moved in. Things went okay, but the spark was going away. We hung in there, still love each...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) My dates all say there is no spark or attraction?
i'm 40 got 2 daughters but dates all say the same thing I'm not what they are after why I'm good looking got good physical etc even told by women all the time but they don't go near me ans say there is no spark why? Got...
lifesavr
Xper 3 Age: 55 What whould I say to her for the last time after break-up? Please help
To be honest I am really hurt. I don’t want to claim myself as a nice guy, but I only had respect till now for girls. We dated for 6 months. I really connected, she didn’t I guess. Just about half way through she started...
abd123
Xper 5 Age: 41 Do you bother with a second date if you're not excited about the first date?
I went through a breakup 6 months ago, and recently I've been going on a few dates, but nothing serious so far. Most recently, I went on a first date with a woman who was attractive, easy to talk to, and had many similar...
lameboyfriend
Xper 4 Age: 46 How to deal with a crazy jealous wife?
Hello everybody, I'd like to know how to deal with a extremely jealous person , in my case my wife, which is really giving me hard time. She's always convinced that I'm looking at other girls or even older women whenever...
Anonymous
(36-45) Have you ever made a mistake & watched your life have a domino effect?
I worked a a retail store last year, met my now boyfriend, and met a lot of other people I wish I had never came in contact with. I started dating my now boyfriend last summer, but told him I just wanted to be friends...
Anonymous
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