A girl I went to college with keeps asking me out for a drink.
We both finished college last spring. During these college years, we talked in real life and chatted online a little, and that's all. I suppose I could claim she flirted with me, but she also appeared to flirt with many other guys... Anyway, the last time we saw us in college, we told us we should keep in touch, but we only did by chatting online. Two months ago, I ran into her in real life, we talked a little and she asked me if I would like to take a drink with her sometimes, to which question I answered yes, and we left each other on that, without meeting each other for that drink. Yesterday, we chatted online for the first time since this last meeting and she again asked me out for a drink, and we conclude we will contact each other next week to go for this drink.
The problem is that I don't know what are her intentions. Does she have a friendly or a romantic interest? And I'm not really into her, it isn't that I dislike her, she's cute and interesting, but she makes no "sparks" in me. Would it be OK to go on a date with her if she already has some romantic interest in me, whereas my feelings toward her are only neutral?
I turned 23 this year, I never had a girlfriend and my dating experience is really limited and non-conclusive. Thus, I was thinking I could "use" this girl as a "practice girlfriend". I know it could be considered bad to do this, but I believe it would be the best way for me to build the confidence and the experience I need with girl I'm really into in the future.
Any thoughts?
We both finished college last spring. During these college years, we talked in real life and chatted online a little, and that's all. I suppose I could claim she flirted with me, but she also appeared to flirt with many other guys... Anyway, the last time we saw us in college, we told us we should keep in touch, but we only did by chatting online. Two months ago, I ran into her in real life, we talked a little and she asked me if I would like to take a drink with her sometimes, to which question I answered yes, and we left each other on that, without meeting each other for that drink. Yesterday, we chatted online for the first time since this last meeting and she again asked me out for a drink, and we conclude we will contact each other next week to go for this drink.
The problem is that I don't know what are her intentions. Does she have a friendly or a romantic interest? And I'm not really into her, it isn't that I dislike her, she's cute and interesting, but she makes no "sparks" in me. Would it be OK to go on a date with her if she already has some romantic interest in me, whereas my feelings toward her are only neutral?
I turned 23 this year, I never had a girlfriend and my dating experience is really limited and non-conclusive. Thus, I was thinking I could "use" this girl as a "practice girlfriend". I know it could be considered bad to do this, but I believe it would be the best way for me to build the confidence and the experience I need with girl I'm really into in the future.
Any thoughts?
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Considering girls usually don't ask guys out, if a girl kinda ask a guy out, and if she does so more than one time, I suppose she has some interest in the guy, no? But, what kind of interest?
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