My boyfriend used to study in one of our universitys computer rooms. This study space was also occupied by a few other students, mostly Chinese students. Out of which there was 1 lady in particular who was always gossiping about him with her other Chinese friends. He eventually began talking to them and I think this lady was showing interest in him and he told her that he was seeing someone ( he wasn't).
I was friends with one of this lady's friends and when I told her that I liked him, she texted me the next day asking to meet as she wants to tell me something. She told me that how he told her friend that he was seeing someone and how I shouldn't approach him.
I eventually did and we started talking. This lady had never seen us together so she was cordial towards me.
However, I noticed that once my boyfriend (before we started dating) told her she looked good and ever since then she began asking him to come with her and her female friends for drinks, lunch etc. He went out with them but when she began trying to get a bit close he again told her he was seeing someone.
However, after we started dating, she saw us together when I came to see him and he left with me. I had noticed her behaviour so I told him to distance himself and he did but he did tell me that she was again asking him to come for lunch with her and her friends (my boyfriend is friends with her chinese guy friend) and he declined because he was going with me.
After that, I noticed that her behaviour towards me changed completely. She stopped greeting me and wouldn't smile or anything. Once she saw me enter the building and she was walking in my direction, but as soon as she saw me, she changed her route, gave me a blank look and walked off.
I have also noticed her friends keep looking at me. Today, I saw one of them and I was walking behind her until I saw that she turned to look at me and again when I walked past her to go upstairs
Why are these girls looking at me?
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So I think it would be more productive to focus on why your mind keeps turning towards what these girls are saying/looking at.
It may feel obvious but from your story the more natural concern would be "Is my new boyfriend still interested in the girl he openly hit on just before we started dating and who is clearly interested in him"
If the answer is no then he should go out of his way to make sure the thought of her and her friends doesn't cramp the begining you two's relationship.
In particular there is a symmetry issue here. If he was shy guy whom another girl was always smiling at before you were together then it would be overbearing to expect him to manage your jealosy.
But, from the story he is not that. He is an assertuve guy who knows he us attractive and knows that he had his pick between you and another girl he, again, openly hit on.
So being that kind of guy it is incumbent upon him to put you at ease.
So the girl that's acting weird is the one who kept asking your current boyfriend to go out and get drinks or whatever?🤔
Well that's a simple explanation, she told you not to go after him cause he said he was with someone and then found out you did it anyway and got with the guy she wanted. So now she don't like yo ass Cause she doesn't have him. And as for the friends looking at you. It's most likely because she's talking shit about you to them and now they're aware of you haha🤔
Why is she talking shit about me. He rejected her. I didn't force him to reject her lmao
Because you took her man😂 it don't make sense but Women be like that some time
He was never her man lol