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We are in a long distance relationship with someone living in NZ and is from my home country only. It's been a month now. And he asked me what my goals are and I said I'm not sure but want to do mba in my home country and work here where as he is in NZ and is calling me there. He said me I should take loan to pay for fees of NZ masters and come there and stay with him and do masters in NZ and that I shouldn't worry about job thingy. So bdw, I'm an introvert and have less friends and he was like name three friends and I just have one best friend to be honest and he asked me why I don't have friends. I am very reserved and he has problem with me not having friends stating how will I grow despite having a good job and that I won't be able to survive in corporate world. He said me thrice that in home country, you're paid less and abroad you're not and that I should come to NZ. He asked me why i, 23 year old girl not getting promoted and i said that it's p been a year and a half. He is 24 and asked me why no wfh for me and I said the reason that I don't have access to those softwares at home and will resume office after lockdown gets over coz here still everything is shut. He said that he'll leave me if he gets someone like him. I asked him why not leave me right away and he said that he doesn't have anyone rn. He don't have time to find one. He wouldn't leave me because he loves me. Such contradictory statements. He suddenly talked about pre-nup that he'll make me sign before marriage stating I won't get a single penny after divorce that made me wonder why he talked to me like that. He aslo mentioned about the break up part and asked me if I want to break up and I said that if you have problem with me, you should break up and make decision right away. Then he says he doesn't wanna break up. I totally don't understand what to do. Should I break up?

I've been friends with my bestfriend for over 10 years
We are the same age (25)

I've had 3 relationships
she's never had a boyfriend

she's met all my ex boyfriends

She always tells me that she's not into relationships
So she has one night stands/friends with benefits
Never met any of her guys

But she is bisexual
So she's hooked up with guys and girls
she's kind of a tomboy

I've had some messy breakups
And in every relationship, there's always ups and downs
Its normal
Since she's my best friend, I tell her whenever Im going through relationship problems

But what annoys me is that.. she's always negative about relationships and guys when she's never had a relationship before

She would tell me like:
- oh guys are such idiots/always just want to f**k
- all your relationships are shit and never worked out.. thats why I dont want to be in one
- marriage will never work out, I dont know why people get married
- I love bad boys, I always fall for them
- judging from your relationships, all guys are not worth it
- I dont want a relationship, so Im sleeping around.. so much better
- why do you date gym guys? They are all f**kboys and messed up

It just annoys me when she says those things

What i mean by that is when i say a traditional woman i mean one who enjoys cooking cleaning, baking, loves children (very maternal), wants marriage and a husband doesn't swear much or use vulgar language, dresses very feminine mostly and has values of maybe less modern than today, and when i say nontraditional i mean someone who doesn't fit a stereotype and does what they want and lives how they want, doesn't believe in gender rolls, or something should be a certain way, maybe isn't very good with kids, is very independent, lives life day by day, not bothered about marriage etc.

Neither are meant to be negative, just trying to give a maybe exaggerated example of what i am saying.

I have been seeing /talking to this guy for a few months. He has made me feel comfortable, secure, confident, loved , safe. He tells me that he loves everyhing about me and my body. He has told me we will work on things together when it came to some of my worries etc.

He told me he loved me on our third date. He says he sees a future with me aka marriage and kids. He doesn't easily give up on us. He wants to know whats bothering me and not to bottle things up. He says he trusts me and is comfortable with me. He says he will be here through thick and thin. He has called me his girlfriend to other people