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So, I've got this second cousin who was adamant that modern society made it hundreds of times better to be a woman than it did to be a man, that living life as a woman would be laughably easy compared to the difficulty of living life as a man, and that becoming a woman would give him near-total freedom to do and say whatever he wanted without any repercussions or recrimination. In his words, "a white woman can get away with anything, a black dude can't get away with shit"; "everyone loves a white woman, everyone hates a black man".

But he didn't merely join MGTOW, or keep on bemoaning his lot in life like many of the guys on here. Almost a decade ago, he decided to go all the way, got an sex-change operation and became a transgender woman, as well as bleaching his skin to become more 'white'. Not because he identified as a white woman (he still refers to himself as a man , but merely because he wanted to be one, because becoming one would enable him to "live life on easy mode".

And by all accounts, including his (/her) own, it has. Whereas he (she) was unemployed for years as a black man, with a criminal record after having been convicted and imprisoned for jaywalking of all things, he/she's now been employed for the past eight years, and risen to a high-ranking position with a high salary (thanks largely to equal opportunities and LGBTQ employment initiatives) as a trans-white trans-woman. He (/she) even has a sex life now, and has several friends with benefits relationships with girls, whereas he'd still been a 28yr old male virgin before the sex change.

And he/she still boasts that it's all down to the sex change, citing his/her own life as proof-positive that it's a hundred times better and easier to live life as a woman than it is to live life as a man. So, what's your opinion of my second cousin? What do you think of his/her life-changing decision and his actions, and of his reasoning for taking that course of action? And why?

Hello, it's me, Brian. I have already posted here asking whether I am ugly or not. Here are my pics:


I am a very shy guy and girls don't like me. But thanks to you I became a little bit more confident and approached the girl I had a crush on. However, I am still a loser and too shy so she became my oneitis. But recently this douchebag Chad started approaching her and flirting with her:



The first 3 are photoshopped because he is an arrogant douche but the last one is his true pic. As you can see he is much better looking than me and I don't stand a chance against him when it comes to dating. Besides, he is a very confident jerk who had sex with lots of girls while I am still a virgin. How can I make this douchebag leave my love alone?

Ok well there is this one girl that is friends with my friends girlfriend. I've met her a few times, and she's okay. I haven't talked to her much but I've thought she was kind of cute. My friends girlfriend even asked me one time if I would be interested, and I'm about 90% I could possibly do something with her.

But the thing is, everytime someone talks about her they say how crazy and high maintenance she is. I think some of it comes from her acting like she can drink, but gets drunk 2 beers in. And she gets a little crazy when she drinks apparently. She's also really ADD, the one time I did meet her and talk to her. We went on the porch and she was barefoot, and when we came in she sat there and painted the floor with the rain on her feet. I thought it was funny lol.

But the main reason I'm asking this is because, well, I'm still a virgin and I'm already 20. I don't go to college and the only people I meet at this point in life is my friends, and any friends of there's. And girls I meet on Tinder, but I usually never meet in real life. I use it more of a boredom thing. Back in high school, it was a lot easier to blow it off because I had so many different options. But I've been out of school for a few years and I worked at Macy's for a year and the girls there were kind of too preppy and stuck up. I get along better with stoners or party people. Which makes me kind of nervous that I might not even be able to get this over with before I meet a girl I really like. Because I don't want to lose it to anyone special, I'm just really honestly a little afraid of that type of affection. I'm good at flirting, but I don't know how I would handle this type of situation.

Anyways, do you have any advice or opinions you could give? Anything is much appreciated lol