Search Results: attracting the wrong guys

Why do girls suddenly turn cold and uninterested at the "few days" mark?

I usually dont have a problem attracting women and i have talked to plenty and some were so into me they would always reply and message and even apologize if they did me wrong and i was cool with that... After all its how...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why am I always the hookup and never the girlfriend?

I’m 20 and I’ve never been in a relationship. There seems to be a recurring pattern with the guys I date, none of them never want to make me their girlfriends but are perfectly fine with sleeping with me and having the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What am doing wrong?

I can't understand what's wrong with me I can't seem to attract any females I know I'm not that great looking and I'm really not a bad boy which most women like I'm just a normal guy why don't women like normal guys

chrishall4102

Xper 5 Age: 46

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How do I stop being bitter & angry towards women after rejection?

All I've been experiencing is nothing but rejection. And what doesn't help is when I see other guys who successfully attract women & get girlfriends with little to no difficulty at all. And then I hear stuff like "you...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls-- GUYS ARE NOT "INTIMIDATED" BY YOU. Stop lying to yourselves if you want to help yourselves and no longer be single.

This shouldn't take too long. Something that I overheard at a bar last night was a lonnnnnnng conversation between a group of friends at the next table. One of the females was telling another female friend/coworker that...

Thatsamazing

Guru Age: 32

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Is she blocking me to keep me from moving on?

I met this woman recently and we clicked in terms of being super attracted to each other (It was down to a few highly intense gazes into each other's eyes). But, it turns out she is in a relationship with a guy (in whose...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

How do you think love develops?

I think there is not „the one“ and you meet this person at the perfect time and everything is perfect... for me, there are some people with whom you might be compatible with but you might just never meet them or meet...

magnifique

Yoda Age: 33

Why do guys like me but don’t guys want to date me?

Hi, so I’m 20 years old, almost 21 and I’ve never had a proper long term relationship before. Is there something utterly wrong with me? I have been in the “talking” stage with guys before and I’ve had guys like me but...

Createinspirefear

Xper 5 Age: 27

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I left my date at the movies?

Now this is why I hate online dating! Guy I don’t know not one bit kept feeling my chest, trying to kiss my lips, touching my lips, hand EVERYWHERE and I was sooooo turned offff. I thought we were going to talk but nope I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How Do I Get Him To Notice Me? Or Am I Wasting My Time?

Hey girls and guys!! <3 This is going to sound a bit ridiculous but i'll say it anyway... :/ So recently (about a month) i've developed a crush on this guy but I don't think he'll ever notice me. The guy is the son...

Anonymous

(25-29)

This guy has a crush on me and I do NOT like him at all. What do I do?

I'm very open minded and admit that if I got to know him better, we could be friends and maybe even something more if I ended up liking him. The thing is, I know for sure that's not gonna happen with him. He's too timid...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Do guys really are attracted to ladies who are brave or bold in go after them or that is a turn off?

I mean I have heard different opinions from guys. Some guys say they like women who are proactive and do that stuff but others says they dont like it because they are not attracted to ladies who are a little (not...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Why do women find it wrong for guys to have pictures of women on their devices?

Why do women get disgusted or offended if you have photos of women of age on your phone or computer album or wallpaper of women in bikinis or lingerie when you're not even trying to sexualize them, but you just enjoy they...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why are short men so offended girls have a preference for taller guys?

Girls can’t help who they’re sexually attracted to in a relationship. Physical attraction is just as important as personality. You can’t force someone to be attracted to someone they’re not or to date them. Women, as well...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, Does it kill the mood or your interest in a guy if he doesn't flirt?

Let's say a guy openly tells you he likes you but he shows his interest in different ways, by being funny or talking about things that are important in today's world (ie: people being oppressed and he wants to help...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I'm attracted to dirty guys, what's wrong with me? Do I need help?

I (F) find myself attracted to dirty guys. For example, there’s a homeless guy about my age (27) who I talked to the other day when I gave him some food. I can’t stop thinking about him and find myself excited to see him...

roro2323

Xper 4 Age: 34

How do you feel about guys approaching you in the gym?

Would you entertain a guy approaching you in the gym in the middle of your workout if your attracted to him or is that the wrong time. And do y’all constantly check guys out at the gym like guys do to girls?

Anonymous

(30-35)

More than friends?

I have been best friends with this guy for just about 3 years. We bonded over politics and really just hit things off right away. We met through work And started communicating outside work via messenger app and then...

Ecogirl288

Xper 2 Age: 38