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We got into a bad argument a couple months ago after a weird period of us being really distant from each other, and he admitted to being so frustrated he thought about hitting up other girls, but never did. And since then he's been talking to this girl he knows 24/7. I'm not exaggerating when I say there is a notification that she messaged him every time I get a glimpse of his phone. But whenever I told him about how uncomfortable it made me he told me I was being selfish and paranoid and that she needed help because she's struggling with all these different problems and so on, and would continue texting her constantly. I had kept noticing the past two months or so, whenever he'd hand me his phone for whatever reason he'd always delete their DMs before handing it to me. And last night I had finally had enough of that and called him out. I was more mad that he thought I was actually stupid enough not to notice him do that so often then I was about him talking to her. And he kept listing excuse after excuse and kept saying he wasn't lying since they weren't doing anything and I have no reason to be mad and blah blah blah. But he is STILL talking to this chick non stop. And it really bothers me that he uses him knowing her from school (for less of a time than I knew him) as an excuse and will completely ignore my discomfort. I understand he's gonna have female friends and talk to them, I have male friends. But I don't understand why I'm in the wrong for being uncomfortable with him repeatedly crossing the boundaries of my comfort. He claims I'm violating his free will but I'm not asking him to drop communication entirely. I just want him to be mindful of how I feel and take that into consideration before going out of his way to start a conversation every day.

Hello!
I’ve been on two dates with this guy so far and I really like him. I’ve really enjoyed our conversations and believe that we have a lot of chemistry together. He seemed interested and engaged as well.

However, something that has been bothering me is that except for the first date, he hasn’t asked me out to any further dates. I’ve had to be the one to ask him to the second and third one. Also, when I asked him out to the third date, he replied with “I don’t know, if you’re down, I’m down” I just feel like that response doesn’t really scream excitement.

His response to my text messages have also been slower and shorter but he did mention that he’s a bad texter.

I just don’t understand why he would seem really interested during the dates but be so dry afterwards and make no attempts in arranging further dates.

Am I overreacting or is he losing interest? Should I keep initiating further dates with this guy?