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this is how i met her she was a mutal friend and i met her at my friends birthday party, she had lovely dark hair and pale skin and bright blue eyes. She was absolutely stunning and we started talking and built i strong relationship with her...
By the time we were a holding each others hand calling each other boyfriend/girlfriend i realised that i really trusted her and felt like she was a very important person to me. The 3/4 years i was with her i honestly treated her like a princess we would spend a lot of time together, we never really fighted over much. Like i was so amazing to her, i would always tell her she is the most beautiful girl in the world, i would sing to her, buy her flowers if she was upset, i was so romantic and caring, i would massage and kiss her body/feet when stressed, and people honestly thought i was a really confident tall good looking ambitious young man with a good job and good career goals and respected by a lot of people.
As time went by she did become a little bit colder/ we would have sex less and so i asked one of my loyal childhood friends who had never met her properly to find out if she was being faithful.
I remember he wouldn't answer my calls one day and he came to my house and he told me that he found her near a park deep kissing another man he even took a picture of them sucking on a fuckin ice cream together if i didn't believe him :(. I was crushed when he said this, i felt like killing myself, i was so upset and hurt! I remember crying like a fucking baby and had my mate comfort me, how embarrasing! I invested so much love in this relationship! I feel humiliated and a loser!! The next day i arranged to see my girlfriend in alone and i tried my hardest to make her admit she was cheating, and she was acting shocked and delusional.

I was so angry and pissed off, and i called her a cheating whore and smacked her. It wasn't a brutal smack but it was hard, and she knew instantly what i

I have been dating my girlfriend for 10 months. We spend almost every weekend together. We enjoy our time together and we have many common interests. We have had a few minor disagreements but we have never had a fight. I think she is The One and everyone who knows us says we are an ideal couple.

I am in love with her and I have told her so. She says that, because of her history of being married to a man who was unfaithful for many years, she is very guarded about letting anyone into her heart. I understand that. I would like to think that she loves me but I honestly don't know what's in her heart. Of course, I have asked her to talk to me about our relationship and her feelings. She says that she is very happy with our relationship and that she is very fond of me. She doesn't say that she loves me and I don't push her to say it, because if/when she says it, I want to know she is telling me what is in her heart and not merely responding to some perceived pressure. In the meanwhile, we continue to enjoy a monogamous, exclusive relationship.

My goal in dating is to find a partner for a permanent relationship. I want someone who loves me just as I love her. I want someone who will be committed and faithful to me just as I will be committed and faithful to her.

At times, I tell myself that I should be patient and wait for her to become more confident. Other times, I think that may never happen and, potentially, I am spending time seeking something that will never come to exist. What do you think I should do?