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So, my boyfriend and I have been together for a couple months. It started out amazing, it was sort of a "friends to lovers" situation. We were very talkative and got comfortable around each other quickly. But, he's started ignoring me to play video games or watch tiktok a lot lately (it's been a few weeks now). Like, not texting the whole day then coming back the next saying some bullshit like 'sorry I was playing all day and I fell asleep'.

I would understand, I get being addicted to video games and tiktok, but he's been ignoring me even when I've told him I needed him or I missed his company.

We've barely talked the past week, and when we have, he's always initiated some kind of sexual topic that had us end up having phone sex or exchanging.

I feel like he got bored of me and is now just using me for sex. I confronted him, but he didn't really care until I suggested breaking up, telling me he loves me and that he doesn't know what he'd do without me.

I'm giving him the benefit of the doubt because he said he doesn't really understand 'feelings' and it's his first relationship, but I'm quite sensitive and I need someone to be there to show that they care.

I don't really know what he feels or what I should do.

Does he still like me? Should we break up?

I am in my late twenties and never been in a real relationship. The one guy I did date, I felt like I had to settle because no one better came around. He was a decent person but I wasn’t physically attracted to him. I was always under the impression that my lack of attraction from guys was because of my weight.

A few years later, I’m still thick but definitely smaller than what I was before. I don’t have friends so I have to use the apps to meet people and as you’d assume it’s a disaster. I mean I’m told I’m cute, some say pretty etc but I just can’t find a man. The ones I was physically attracted to only want sex and the ones that pursue me have decent personalities but they’re too short for my preference or just not attractive to me.

I see women often that are average or maybe heavier than me, with guys I find good looking, and really wonder how they were able to find them. I feel if I settled with any of the guys I mentioned I attract, I will always feel bothered at the fact that I can’t get the kind of man I really want. So that’s why I stay single, it seems permanent considering I’m only getting older and told myself this would improve as the years go by.