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So, there is this guy I have a crush on, and he has been showing signs of interest (Ex. compliments, helping me with tasks, teasing, hanging out, etc.) . He will start dating soon, (he hasn't had a girlfriend before) and I was wondering if there is a chance he would choose this other girl over me? (If he had to choose between me and her.) I've only known him for 2 years and she has know him since elementary. (We are in high school). But she has dated some of his friends already. (Dated, broke up, hung out, dated, and broke up again.) I heard my crush make fun of her for liking him a few years ago, but they are still friends.

Guys, if by mischance, you find yourself at a moment in your life in a situation where you have to choose between two girls to commit to one of them?

Lets say you have feelings for both but you messed up and now both of them love you and you need to leave one of them and "keep" the other for a serious relationship. Lets assume both of them have their strength and weakness.

My question is not which one you chose i know it depends on the person etc (we will assume both of them are equal in terms of ++ and - -)

my question is what is the thing/things that would make a difference?
What is the thing that would makes you chose one over the other?

Guy/Men, Would you let your girlfriend/partner/spouse quit her job and take care of all of the expenses?

Some women who are married 'often' become 'staying at home wives' without being pregnant or having kids.
They talk to their spouses about how unhappy their work makes them feel and they both agree that she can quit and stay at home until (if she ever wants to go back to work) she is in the mood to work again...

How would you behave if you had a choice to choose between hard work, feeling exhausted by the end of the day, income not really that good and the job is making you feel unhappy?

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