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I am a freshman in college, and I currently have 2 guys vying for my attention. The problem is, both of them know each other, and I've reached a point where if I spend any more time with either one of them, it's headed straight for a relationship. Both of them like me a lot, but one of them has made it clear that he won't wait forever- and that's pretty bad news for someone who needs a whole lot of time to make up her mind.
So, I've come here to ask for your advice. Here are some pros and cons:

Guy #1:
PROS
-Shares a LOT of the same interests as me
-Incredibly sweet
-Very sexually compatible

CONS
-Lives off campus so I don't see him very often
-Don't know much about his life/hasn't introduced me to any of his friends
-Feels like I'm not an important part of his life (mostly because of the previous two things)

Guy #2
PROS
-Has mutual friends
-Extreme gentleman
-Always around/asking to be around (he has the advantage of living in the same hall as me)
-Makes me feel like an important part of his life (also because of the previous two points)

CONS
-Doesn't have much in common in terms of interests
-Not as sexually compatible
-Still talks about his ex
-Aims only to please (don't get me wrong, this can be nice... But I also like a guy who can tell me what he wants rather than only asking me the same.)

My biggest problem is that although I feel like Guy #1 should be the obvious choice, (he does seem to be more compatible overall,) the fact that I can and do spend so much time around 2 makes him much easier to fall for. With 2 I already feel like I'm part of a team; I just don't know if I would feel the same with 1 if I gave him more time. Unfortunately, however, time is running out.

so basically this guy and I had been hooking up for a month or so. we'd watch movies, go to clubs, hang out at bars, etc. he'd often stay the night, but we agreed on keeping it casual as he didn't want anything more than a hook up. one time when we went to a club, he started dancing with other girls in front of me. the next morning, he asked me if he had been an asshole or if he had done anything to upset me. I told him he had been kind of mean, and he said we should talk about it. he said he wanted to figure out what we were doing and that he didn't want to hurt me or be that guy who was oblivious. later we decided to keep it as friends as he said he didn't want anything more than a hook up and it'd be better this way. the next week at a party, he came up to me and said hi and later he asked my friends where i was because he couldn't find me. then he offered to give me my coat because I said I was cold. so I'm really confused now, can someone tell me whats going on? does he just want to be friends or is he still interested?