Search Results: initiating a break up

Why is my ex acting this way but refusing to be with me?

My now ex girlfriend broke up last Saturday, however, yesterday she posted a picture of us to her snapchat story with the caption "stay safe". Additionally, earlier today I initiated a conversation with her and when...

THenny

Xper 5 Age: 27

Signs She is Losing Interest in You

You meet this amazing woman. You hit it off. She’s the girl of your dreams. Someone you can take home to mom. But you notice she’s been off the radar lately and you are not sure if she’s just busy or she’s slowly losing...

Pinay_ako

Influencer Age: 44

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3 months and struggling to cope?

I broke up with my girlfriend 3 months ago. It was mutual but I felt back into a corner. I tried and tried to fix the situation but she didn't seem interested. We stopped seeing eachother mainly because she wouldn't be...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Boyfriend isn’t making an effort, move on?

We broke up and reconciled 2 weeks later initiated by him.. I think I forgave him too easily. So now he knows he has me and is not making any effort except for staying in touch.. keeps saying we will go to this place...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I take her back after how she blocked me on facebook?

My first year of five was fantastic with my fiancée of a year and a half. In the recent past she had become more self-centered and controlling, mostly wanting to eat at fancy restaurants near malls where she constantly...

facebookblocked

Xper 4 Age: 69

How can you make things work better after reconciling?

Me and my soon to be boyfriend I should say, broke up temporarily for a period if I would say 2.5 weeks.. I thought it was over.. things started to go downhill prior rather fast because I am too codependent, needy, etc.....

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Signs a guy is scared to commit/enter a relationship/take it further?

So I have this guy friend.. We always have a wonderful time together. We have known each other for years. He even initiated the first kiss and we even went as far as third base (yeah sorry for sharing - though it might...

AnnaJV59

Xper 4 Age: 30

Were you ever the same again after you broke up with someone you were in a toxic relationship with?

2 years ago, my first long time relationship ended. The relationship was very toxic and I never regretted ending it, however, ever since I have trouble flirting and initiating with guys. I used to be quite flirty and thus...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I Still Have Doubts

I hate men. They are these cruel monsters with no love in their hearts. That is...until you found me. Then all flowers blossomed in my heart. Then you bound me with vines. Vines that I will never be able to tear off....

Anonymous

(25-29)

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Girl's Behavior

She's blocked me on messenger but still friends?

i don't understand this. me and my ex broke up however we remained good to eachother and haven't spoken for a month (she ignored me and not read my last message) However I haven't initiated any more contact, I've kept...

Turnergo

Xper 4 Age: 37

Guy's Behavior

I think I’m in a rebound relationship?

My boyfriend left a woman he was trying to be in a relationship with for me. He tells me how he complained to her about standing up to her family, stop letting them control her, how her family didn’t like him to begin...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, Why would my ex block me on Facebook, after all I did, was giving her space?

So, after we broke up, she contacted me, wanting to meet up. She told me the meeting would only last about 15 min. We ended up talking for over 4 hours. She told me there was several things she couldn't tell me while...

normieman

Xper 3 Age: 36

Will you feel bad if you get to know your girlfriend had a boyfriend in her past life?

I am trying to make up with my ex boyfriend whom I broke up with 3 years ago. We somehow got in touch with eachother recently and seeing eachother if we can again be in relationship or not. One day he asked me if I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is this a good enough reason to break up with someone?

So I have been dating this girl for almost 6 months. (Note that were both in our senior year of high school going to same university later this fall, this is both our first relationship) We met each other in October and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

He's gone cold?

Recently had the talk with the guy just to see where we stood with each other, he said he'd say we're just friends (with a thinking emoji) and basically said how he's not ready for a relationship with anybody at the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

20 Qualities of a "Real" Woman

Your awesome myTake is now "Featured". You have earned extra 100 Xper Points and will be in queue to get featured on homepage! Congrats! 20 Qualities of a "Real" Woman HAHAHAHAHA! I knew GAG would do this! In your face...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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After I broke up with my ex 3 days ago (he initiated it), I found him looking at my insta stories more often than when we were together?

Does that mean anything? He isn't really that active on social media but all of a sudden he's paying all the attention. I know it might not mean anything, maybe he has moved on... But we just broke up 3 days ago. Few...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Recently broke up and still want to be friends, should I still message her?

So this amazing girl and I just had a recent break-up, technically initiated by her. So I still want to be friends with her because we were close friends for 3 months before we had a relationship, but she tried to avoid...

Emptyheart

Xper 6 Age: 28