You meet this amazing woman. You hit it off. She’s the girl of your dreams. Someone you can take home to mom. But you notice she’s been off the radar lately and you are not sure if she’s just busy or she’s slowly losing interest in you.
Here are some signs a woman is slowly losing interest in you…
1. She rarely initiates conversation/contact
You used to wake up to a Good morning Handsome insert heart eyes emoji. Now you wake up to a full battery charged zero notifications Iphone. You have to send her one to remind her that you are still alive.
2. She is always busy
Every time you try to meet up or go on a date or do something together, she always has an excuse not to meet you or be with you. She used to always make time for you, now you’re just a burden or a distraction.
3. She doesn’t care to check on you
Gone are the days, she use to call you/send you a quick hey I miss you text during the day. Again, your phone is dry like how she treats you.
4. She’s cold as ice
When you do see her or visit her, her treatment is cold unlike her warm welcome when she was still into you. She’d sit as far away from you. Her body is facing away from you. Minimal to zero eye contact.
5. She gets irritated/annoyed by you
Whenever you’re around her, her mood changes from good to bad… Acts bored around you.
6. She doesn’t care about her appearance around you
There is no reason to impress you because she no longer wants to be with you. She used to dress sexy or get dolled up every time you get together. Now she looks like she just rolled out of bed with no F in the world.
7. She doesn’t update you with her life
You used to be her go to person for every major event or the minute inconvenience of her life. Now you’re always the last to know or you just don’t know anything about her anymore.
8. She doesn’t initiate sex/want sexy time
Instead of turning her on, you turn her off. She pulls away every time you initiate a kiss or just touching her.
9. She is talking to some other guy
When the conversation with you is getting less and short, her conversation is getting longer and deeper with another guy.
10. She ghosts you
She just disappears out of the blue without a warning.
11. She has a Tinder profile
Yikes. She’s obviously not looking for a friend…
12. She is always going on a night out with her single girl friends
13. She tells you
14. She takes forever to reply to you
She used to take a milli second to reply to you even before you finish your text. Now, she replies a lifetime later in one or two words; sometimes only a letter.
15. She stops talking to you
She stops replying to your texts, all your calls going to voicemail. She always has her phone with her and you know she’s ignoring you.
16. She blocks you
She unfriended/unfollowed you on social media. She changed numbers without telling you.
17. She talks to you about another guy
18. She friend zones you
Starts calling you bro, bruh, buddy, best friend or fam or some shit you don’t like to called that classify as friend/famzoned.
19. She lies to you
She will make up bullshit excuse or sob story to break up or stop talking so you can leave her alone.
20. You’re here reading this
If you’re wondering if the girl you like is losing interest and you’re here reading this and checking off most of the signs, then she definitely is losing interest with you.
If you are losing interest with someone, be brave enough to break it to them but be gentle though. Breaking a heart takes time to mend so take it easy. Don’t lead people on. Let them know from the get go before things get serious that you aren’t ready for a serious relationship.
When a woman is quiet or showing signs she is slipping away from you, ask yourself why. If you are not making her happy, let her go or make it work. If not, let another woman show you the love and happiness you deserve.
Thanks for the time reading.
Most Helpful Opinions
All of these are exactly the things that happened in my last relationship, especially No.2 and 9. Oh how I was so heartbroken in the beginning, only to realize later on that this woman plays with multiple men and uses them and gets bored when she's ready. I was just another one on a string. I also found out how some of those other guys themselves even distanced themselves from her too. But I'm amazed at how I've moved on from her and she's the one doing everything she can to avoid me now when I haven't even spoken to her in over a month.
I think women who do all the things in your list probably never cared about a guy anyway. Any time she can start changing temperatures like that it's because she had no real rooted interest in the guy anyway; she was probably just in love with the idea of a relationship. Any time a woman really likes a man, she will acknowledge that things aren't their best in the relationship at the moment or that she's even not really liking everything the guy is doing at the moment, but she won't just start letting go like that.
Real love actually does hold on through the bitter and the sweet.