Search Results: ready for commitment

A guy trying to make the girl happy by leaving her side. If the girl has a better degree and better career, would it bother you?

I've been dating this guy for almost 2 months. We've been seeing each other almost every night for the past month. He introduced me to his friends, went out on dates, we've been to both of our places... just normal...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Man As Initiator: Why Courtship Roles Shouldn't Change🚶🏽💭❤️

Yes, I'm a traditional girl. No, I'm not stuck in the 50's. I believe in gender roles and their benefits, but not necessarily that one must confine themselves to the way society expects an individual to perform. Society...

justbanANNAz

Editor Age: 31

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How long do you invest in a relationship before walking away?

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and we're still not at the point where he's ready for any type of commitment. He's perfectly fine just dating. Whenever I bring up settling down, he gets a 'headache' and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Buying a house together with long term boyfriend?

So my boyfriend and I have been talking about getting a place together but he's not ready to get engaged yet. He wants us to get a place and test things out first. To me, buying a house is a big deal. It's expensive and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My ex-NON-boyfriend contacted me after 3 months, is he looking to try again or is he bored and wanting attention?

Right, so long story short, we were seeing each other for 4 months. Things were good, we laughed, we saw each other regularly, he always initiated meeting. I told him he was my first relationship. He told me he'd wait...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, how would you respond or react if a girl that dos everything for you?

Say for instance this girl held you down completely. At your lowest darkest depressed days when things just wasn't working for you she was there. She comfort you, listened to you, and tried to be your peace as much as...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Guys, Commitment phobic yet he has feelings for me?

A guy (age 32) has become my teacher for my last year at college (I'm 36) From the first time it was more than just a teacher-student relationship. We started talking for hours after his classes and formed a deep...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Break Up & Divorce

How do I get over a guy friend that I connected with?

How come it is harder to get over a nice guy whom you really connected with? First off, I came out of a "break up" with Trevor*, a guy I exclusively dated for months. I was his rebound, and like some rebound...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

Should I or shouldn't I?

I've been seeking him for almost a year and as of 2 months ago he says he's not ready for a commitment. He's never treated me anything but great. Has to always be touching me and feels the need to mark me up with (passion...

msinvisible1

Xper 6 Age: 51

Guys, Have you ever felt like you met the right girl at the wrong time? What did you do? How did you act?

Weather you weren't ready for a commitment. Or was seeing someone else. Or you felt like family would get in the way. Have you ever felt like you met the right girl at the wrong time?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do guys ever regret not committing to a girl?

Would a guy ever regret losing a girl because he didn't want to commit? Say for instance this girl was down for you like no other even you acknowledged her loyalty and the way she hold you down during a rough time you...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Generalizations and Stereotypes: Why They Exist

I've wanted to write about this for a long time and decided to now after a recent exchange I had with somebody here. This is actually something I've reflected on a lot more in my life in recent years, and I can say for...

ManOnFire

Editor Age: 39

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True? Not ready for commitment = not ready for commitment with YOU?

Many guys say this a lot, that they're not ready for commitment, have commitment issues, not ready for a relationship, etc, and I'm wondering how true it is. Personally, I think it's a line. I think when a guy meets a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Many guys say this a lot, that they're not ready for commitment, have commitment issues, not ready for a relationship, etc, and I'm wondering how true it is. Personally, I think it's a

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Break Up & Divorce

Is he afraid of commitment? How can you lose a connection so fast?

I was friends with a guy online for 5 years. Nothing more. Then he told me he was moving near where I live and wanted to meet up. We did and very unexpectedly, sparks flew. A few days later I told him I liked him, but I...

ConfusedLadyNY

Xper 4 Age: 43

Why he won't stop leading me on and commit! What is his agenda? Help?

I dated a guy for a couple of months. He was basically treating me like a girlfriend.. Making a lot of insinuations as well.. So I didn't even question the nature of the dating process as I just assumed it would end as in...

Bella9191

Xper 7 Age: 35

Society & Politics

5 Reasons Why Older Women Are NOT Worthless

I am not sure what compelled me to write this. Maybe it is because I have a thing for older women, or maybe it is because I wish my mother would give me more attention. Either way, I have written this piece to refute the...

JRICHARDS1996

Editor Age: 30

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How would you feel if you spent 10 years with a person then you guys broke up and your now 30 ?

You meet this person when you were 20. Had lots of sex, adventure and fun with them. Example: You in your early 20's And let say 10 years pass and your now 30. You want to get married but your SO isn't ready. That...

Anonymous

(30-35)

She likes me a lot but wants me to date other girls?

I met a girl online a few months ago and we were talking daily ever since. Unfortunately, we live a few hours a part from each other, but have met up twice. So, about a month ago she left for a summer vacation by herself....

Anonymous

(36-45)