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What I get from this post..
1. YOU are the girl
2. You are feeling down that after all that you were ready to give.. he was not willing to commit
3. you are wondering whether he'll regret it after thinking for sometime and come back to you.
My advice: DON'T WAIT
He knew exactly what he was doing. Guys dont take quick decisions emotionally. If he's going.. it's because he wants to. Don't think.. don't wonder.. don't torment yourself dear. Start looking elsewhere. Some other guy will be as wonderful and willing to commit :)
Depends if the question/conversation of commitment came up. If it did and he said no he may not want it, ay not regret it. If it came up and he said I'm not sure or I need to think about it or said yes I would like commitment but nothing happened, then he would regret it
no. if a person doesn't want a commitment- they dont want one. people dont feel bad for not wanting things they dont want. thats the nature f waning or not wanting. you do or yo don.
now if he dd but pretend not to this different. but if he genially didn't then he didn't. end of.
Yeah, it happens. Not with every guy though obviously. But if you pass up on a great thing (or person, in this case) and you realize it, then obviously it's gonna sting. A little too late do they realize this, though. Sadly.
Yes, one of my male friends told me that he had a girl like that, treated her badly and regretted it years later. He didn't realise what he had at the time.
Depends on the guy, but I'm sure many (if not most of them) do. God knows I've heard enough stories of woe regarding this exact topic.
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Many years ago, I still regret it till today. Doesn't help that she hates my guts too lol. But like you said... i just wasn't ready.
The part i don't get is why... when females "are not ready"... guys are supposed to wait around or linger or some other crap like that, but when a guy is not ready, they aren't "man enough" or they are immature...
yea, some guys do regret some, but its not very common. it usually happens around the age when girls are full of shit but ready to date...
It's always possible that they regret it later on, but most don't because they didn't commit for a reason.
Whether or not it was a good reason is a totally different story, but if we like someone and don't commit, there's something else going on. ;)
Nope. If I didn't want a commitment with her, there's a reason, and while I might regret that there was reason not to commit, I don't regret my decision.
I'm pretty careful with that kind of decision.
No. There is no woman like you describe, and even if there were, I still wouldn't regret not inviting. gov into my relationship while handing her a nuclear weapon to use against me as soon as she got bored.
Maybe but it's unlikely. If I don't want to commit to a girl there's probably a reason for it. So unless that reason somehow goes away or I find out I was wrong about something, it's unlikely I will regret not committing.
Yep. It happened to me years ago and I regretted it for a loooong time.
No regrets. Everything happens for a reason, so we should all just let it happen and not try to 'fix' it.
I have not had that experience.
When I was young and interested in females, I could almost not get a date. To get to the point at which a female wanted a committed relationship did not happen.
Well there is nothing like a true commitment these days. But based on how much she cared I would take my judgement.
Yeah, it happened to me, but i ended up with her eventually (lucky).
Yes... My fiancee.
I'm the one who walked away, though, not her. I regret it tremendously, but we aren't religiously compatible. I will never find another woman as devoted as her.
Honestly, very, very rarely. VERY rarely. The problem here isn't that the girl isn't good its that there are simply many good girls. It's a vicious competition.
It matters if you really liked them lol it hurts a lot
Sometimes, but then she turn out to be a total slut lol
There was a girl who went to my school who I though may have liked me, but I wasn't sure. She now goes to a different school and now I've fallen for her. So yes
The kind of girl you described, I would definitely lose sleep over and regret everyday especially if I never found one like her again.
I wanted to commit to one girl, but I didn't want to be used by her parents, that's why I didn't commit to her.
I don't think I could simply because none are trustworthy
In my experience they do.
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