I am not sure what compelled me to write this. Maybe it is because I have a thing for older women, or maybe it is because I wish my mother would give me more attention. Either way, I have written this piece to refute the silly and erroneous notion that a woman loses all of her value once she ages. In particular, when she reaches the age of 30. While admittedly her greatest years may be behind her, she still does bring many valuable (and sexy) assets to the table. Below are the top five things I love most about older women, and by older I mean from the age of 26 to like 34.
#5) They are Classy
If there is anything I could say about older women, it is that they are classy. They know how to dress and conduct themselves well. And the fact that they behave in such an aristocratic and wealthy manner is really attractive to me. I love visiting the malls in wealthy areas and watching the beautiful rich women drop hundreds at Nordstrom and Sephora in a single binge.
I imagine that this stems from the fact that older women have a bit more money to spare. After all, most of them are no longer broke college students on a budget. The plus side to this is that they can afford fancier clothing, cosmetics, and other things which work to make them so beautiful.
#4) They are Confident
If there is something I really like about older women, it is that they are confident. And I mean this on the amazingly sexy level. The way older women know that they are attractive and are not afraid to use it to their advantage is really sexy to me. This is in stark contrast to younger women who are almost always insecure, shy, and/or too docile. Older women know how to take charge, and drive you wild. They are the only sort of women who will have the confidence to wear a bikini like this:
Then tease you when you are aroused by it, and just all around be fun and sexy. Maybe confidence is not a gender thing, but rather about age. If so, I can see why so many women go for older men. I like older women precisely because they are often so sexually confident. It is why I crush on @Stacyzee and find myself utterly enthralled by Emily Swallow's character "The Darkness" in Supernatural.
#3) They are Mature
Pardon the pun, but older women tend to be more mature and that is something I admire about them. And by mature I mean that they tend to know what they want and are willing to settle down. Whereas so many younger women are content merely to party and be immature, older women are ready to be mothers, pursue a career, and/or get married.
Maybe it is just one of my tendencies as the oldest child, but I need maturity in a partner. I need stability. I hate transition, thus the thought of merely being in a relationship or shacking up is really pointless to me. I hate not knowing what is going to happen next. I want marriage and commitment, both parties being mature and all of that. Again, probably due to birth order, but as far as maturity goes, I find myself more compatible with older women than I do women my age.
#2) They are Less Judgmental
I really do not intend to turn this into another post of bashing younger women like the countless bitter neckbeards who inhabit this website, but I have to say it. Older women are far, far less judgmental and harsh than younger women are. Whereas a younger woman will not even notice me and/or will not settle for a man who is not a perfect 10, older women tend to be far more understanding and open to an average fellow such as myself. I find that this is true not only with older women, but also with women who are single mothers as well.
Maybe it is because with age comes experience, and so older women have come to realize that not everybody is perfect. On the other hand, younger women still--and somewhat understandably given their inexperience--subscribe to the delusion that perfection is possible and fairy tales are real.
But Most of All,
#1) They are Nurturing
This one applies to all women as I mentioned in one of my previous Takes titled 'In Honor of Femininity: The 5 Things I Love Most About Women', but likewise as I mentioned in that Take, it applies especially in the case of older women. I find that older women no matter how beautiful, classy, wealthy, or out of my league they may be, they still are nurturing and have a soft spot for sensitive fellows like myself. This is what I love most about them. It is like the maternal instinct which is inherent to all women is amplified as they age, and so older women fill a maternal void in my heart. After all, is this not the reason why younger women go for older men?
In conclusion, I wrote this Take in about an hour simply because I was bored. I imagine that I will manage to offend people yet again, but I regret nothing I've said. Simply put, I do like older women and do not agree that they are worthless as so many people assert. In many ways they are superior to younger women. I mean, have you seen how beautiful older women look with all of that fancy makeup, hairstyles, and glamorous clothing? That and the sexy confidence. I'm not good with women, so an older woman who can direct me and play with me a sexy sort of way is really awesome. So much more inviting than the shyness of younger women.
Realistically I can never see myself getting with an older woman--though I find myself crushing on them a lot--because we are at such different stages in our lives. Plus, I would not want to be a widow at 50 or something. But after I hopefully find a woman and get married, I would not lament the fact of her aging but would rather welcome it as another stage in our lives entailing a whole world of new things to look forward to as I listed.
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