Older women becoming recyclable with age, is a perspective that is shared amongst a great majority of men, who refuse to date women their own age. They parade themselves around, arm in arm with their much younger woman, showing her off as if she is a trophy. She works as an ego boost to this older man's self esteem, that is further fed by onlookers, gawking at this woman that is seen at object's value. He is compensating for his "good looks" that have been replaced by his balding head, gray hairs, and wrinkles; by having a woman who holds high desire amongst a wide variety of age groups.
Love is blind. It sees no age, gender, or race.
This statement holds true for those who allow themselves to love freely and are not highly selective in one's age. These are the people that do not closely critique someone by their looks and years, similar to something that can be store bought.The men that mainly target women outside of their age group, harshly critique appearance's of these women who simply cannot stop the time clock. This older man, finds himself in love with the temporary beauty his young woman may possess. You won't be shocked to know, that he has a cut off age of how old he'd exactly date. What remains shocking is that this cut off age, is still many years younger than himself. In his eyes he views older women as, less attractive and unworthy. They are not meant to be kept past their expiration date, they have a shelf life.
Hello Older woman,
You've worked hard your entire life, only to be thrown out into the dark as these men your age run around and chase those who are at the peak of their looks. You've spent a great portion of your life being desired by much older men, when you were younger. Only for things to take a drastic shift when your age starts to finally reveal itself through your appearance.
You don't deserve that!
You've worked too hard!
Ms. Older woman,
You had to drop your husband's last name and file for a divorce because you found out in secretecy what exactly keeps his attention. Every inch of your body, tells a story. He should love, honor, and continue to explore the beauty of your flesh. Those stretch marks, those child-baring hips, those wisdom hairs, should not be made for you to feel as if you are inferior.
The beauty is in, the wisdom that shows. You are a woman whose words are worth listening to. You are a person full of substance.
Do not beat yourself up over a man who sees beauty only in something that will eventually fade.
Hello Mr 35 year old man,
You aren't quite off of the hook just yet. You brag to your friends about the younger girl's you brought home last night. Although the age difference that exists among you and young women aren't nearly as apparent, you never fail to put down women that are closing in on the age you have reached . What's wrong? Do you not see the beauty in yourself? Is that why you feel the need to judge others by physical standards.
True love is something that is skin deep. It goes beyond the surface. As you age, you begin to take even more notice of the substance your relationship has to offer. The intellectual conversations, the times you spend together, the trust you have built over time, is enough to last you a life time. Although both of your looks have changed, this person still holds beauty in your eyes.
Age gap relationships are those that can be ideal depending on the circumstance. However, the moment someone shuns others because they do not fit into the standard of what they find beautiful solely based on their age, then I have to ask myself what is wrong with them?
-How could you be disgusted by someone your age?
-How do you not find beauty in someone who has just as much of life experience as you do?
-Why is there so much negative stereotypes attached to these women you try to avoid?
You are creating unrealistic standards of what women your age should live up to.
Is there really no beauty in them?
Or is it the simple fact that you refuse to see it, and would rather be blinded by the idea you have formulated in your head from early on?
Loves main focus should not be one's age.
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