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Thinking about contacting an ex fwbs, to see if she has any interest in trying again, but is this bad? I'm thinking of her for 2 reasons, 1) it was great the first time, even though it ultimately didn't end well, time has passed and maybe we can put it behind us? 2) I live in a small town, so meeting people, or finding someone else is almost impossible with my schedule. But will this just make me look bad (she'll think even less of me)? Or do you think there's a chance she might consider it? Is it worth a shot, or don't even try?

Tracey and I have been close since we were young and I consider her one of my best platonic female friends. If I understand what Tracey and her classmates will be thinking/feeling I think I’ll be able to walk in with more confidence that this won’t be a bad experience for them (and/or me). Thank you in advance for any advice you can offer.

Tracey and her boyfriend broke up a couple weeks ago and she needs a male model to bring to her waxing class. I was too overwhelmed to ask her any questions at the time but a video of a male Brazilian wax has me almost paralyzed with anxiety: Will I really be completely exposed from the waist down while being touched EVERYWHERE... ? Plus, she said I might be the only male cause others were having trouble finding willing models. That certainly doesn’t make me feel better.

Girls, wouldn’t this be MORE awkward to do to a close male friend than to a stranger? And God willing this won’t happen, but what if there’s some movement “down there” that I can’t stop because I’m so nervous? I’m a grower so I imagine every little twitch is pretty noticeable, but are girls curious about watching that happen? Will they even notice?

Will Tracey (or any of the other girls in the class) be offended if it does happen?

Will they think it’s because I’m aroused like some dirty lustful perv (do girls know erections can happen just from anxiety and nerves)? Would you be uncomfortable handling “it”?

Should I apologize for it, try to make a joke, or just ignore it and pray it goes back down? And then, what if it doesn’t the whole time?

A vindictive ex told me all girls think “growers” are gross and sad, even more so when growing. Is that true? I wish the whole thing could just be amusing and entertaining from their perspective. It makes me sad to think about how f-ed up men are to women and that in all likelihood some (hopeful not most!) will see this post as some kind of disgusting troll BS rather than an honest attempt figure myself out.

It was our 1 month officially being together and i was going to give her air pods with an engraving of “happy 1 month ILY”. for when we were going to go on a trip because she always wanted air pods, but unfortunately she broke up with me, because her parents are going through a divorce, and she’s attached to things she needs to work on alone, and needs time to find herself, she doesn’t want me to be there because she knows things around her are toxic and she didn’t want our relationship to become toxic either because of her environment and didn’t want us to apply what we would see that’s going around she needs a little time. we talked faced to face and she made it clear that “she still loves me, and that i’m the only guy she is attracted to and we could still do couple things, because if she didn’t like me not we wouldn’t be still talking today”. we still talk to this day, we only hang out sometimes, we still hug and lip kiss when we are with each other.

i was planning on taking her to a art museum and giving it to her, i don’t want her to feel bad for breaking up with me because i understand why she did it and it’s neither of our fault, don’t wanna feel like i’m pressuring her for the title while she’s healing mentally. or it’s just in my way of thinking? i need second opinions please!

so 1) i could use some tips for helping me out with getting back together w her or just helpful tips on how you would approach the situation?

and 2) should i give her the gift or not with our “happy one month” engraving

i’ll leave a poll but i still need advice please!