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Opinion question, not going to respond much. I really want everyone's thoughts.
I'll include a poll but encourage you to explain with a sentence or two.

A lot of people who are bitter because they don't have sex, can get a partner, get rejected... I find that it's usually themselves, or at least to a degree. They usually lack incredibly in the confidence area and don't take the time to build on it or they expect it to happen overnight. Or that it isn't their fault they don't have any, like it's something you're just born with, no, you develop it. They're entitled, no one HAS to say 'yes' to you. They don't give a reason, other than being nice, being nice doesn't mean that someone should want you. They let their bitterness get in the way of chances that someone MIGHT say yes, if you have an attitude that no one is gonna like you, that effects your results. They blame it on someone being shallow and just liking douchebags/badboys/sluts/bitches/etc. Like, don't people realize that a lot of these go back to self worth? Are some people actually self centered and shallow? Yes, a lot of people are assholes and don't give other's a chance, that's true. But if you blame people for not dating you cause "you're ugly" that goes back to how you view yourself.

self worth is not equal to entitlement. One is knowing your value, the other is THINKING you deserve something for simply existing. (I swear to God, if one of y'all pulls out a literal definition.)

Also, it's okay to feel bad about your love life, but being bitter is a whole 'nother thing.
This is men and women with this mindset. If you get pissy, well, if the shoe fits.