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I see the girl I'm interested in a lot on campus, but she's always busy with school work when I see her, so I thought about giving her a note saying, "I'm new here at school and I was wondering, if I can get to know you and hang out with you sometime. I've seen you around campus and I thought it would be nice to talk to you. I would be saying this in person, but I want to be respectful in whatever you're doing the time I'm giving you this." My phone number would be on the note, so they have the decision to contact me. What do you think? Is this creepy?

Thank you for reading and hopefully helping me. I am very bad at the dating game and therefore I never date. But I am determined to change my life around.

I'll sketch a made up situation in a nightclub and I describe what happens between brackets and bellow that what she's thinking. She is 25 yr old but she doesn't fully realize she's good looking.

Are her responses correct. Or where I went wrong?

(An attractive but not super attractive guy spots her)

Nice guy, I hope he will approach me.

(Guy walks up to her)

OMG, he is coming over. Why? What does he want? There are tons of other cute girls here. And if I say something wrong he could reject me.

(Guy introduces himself)

Why would he want to talk to me? Or is he just out to have sex with me. At first glance I would say it is a guy I might someday sleep with but I don’t him to know that. When I say something he might find out how much I am interested in him. I don’t want him to think I am easy. He might tell his friends about me. Let me act uninterested. And also test him what is he made off.

(Guy keeps trying to talk to her)

I am giving him no sign of of interest but he is not faced at all by this. He must be very confident in himself. Let me show some more interest. He might be a keeper.

(the girls tries to test him with some questions. She asks him if he often hits on girls. The guy responds jokingly with ‘Of course not. This is the first time I am in this nightclub’)

Funny answer. I like him and he is not a pushover. He seems cool and he makes me laugh. I want to know more about him.

(After a nice conversation the guy ask for a phone number)

He seems to be interested in me and not just to get any girl. I want him to call me. But let me say that I am not sure giving him my phone number. Because I want him to keep trying to see how much he wants me.

(They talk a bit more and then guy asks again for the number)

This time I will give him the number. If he had not asked I would have seen him as weak.