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EthanSilver

Xper 5 Age: 25

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Society & Politics

What would you do if your daughter told someone to kill themselves?

Let's say you have a 16 year old daughter. She's in high school and is one of the popular girls. She got into a fight with another girl and she told that girl to go kill herself because no one would care. She kicked the...

Dog19

Yoda Age: 27

Dating

As an overweight female how do I attract the right guy? Should I simply work on my weight or personality?

How do you make a guy like you or develop a crush on you? I’m a 20 year old black female who is currently in my first year of university, I’m a born and raised Canadian who has lived across Canada. I would love to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Girls, Would you date a guy who was cowardly and not very masculine but was really smart?

Would you date Eugene from the walking dead? He's cowardly, not very masculine and overweight. However, he is really smart like Einstein level smart capable of creating amazing things with his mind and coming up with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would you date Eugene from the walking dead? He's cowardly, not very masculine and overweight. However, he is really smart like Einstein level smart capable of creating amazing things

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Health & Fitness

Who's the problem here? My boyfriend or me?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 3 years. But here's the problem, I've had anorexia since I was 15. I'm now 21. At 15 I never liked my body image cuz I was constantly

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 3 years. But here's the problem, I've had anorexia since I was 15. I'm now 21. At 15 I never liked my body image cuz I was constantly told that I was fat, overweight, should lose weight. Next to know, I started starving myself 24/7. By 15, I used to weigh around 123-ish pounds. By the time I was 19, I weighed a total of 40kg (about 89 pounds rounding). My weight has gone back up and down after many visits to the hospital to get force fed. No I'm not proud of it. At 20, I got a bit better but never fully recovered. It's still like this. I'll eat and be fine, then could be a week and I'm already considering calories, weight, body size, etc. I don't think my boyfriend understands that dealing with such a harmful and difficult E. D. can be such a hard thing to get through cuz it's essentially an addiction to weight loss and a thin body from psychological, emotional, and mental issues. Yes I'm aware what I'm doing is absolutely wrong in every sort of way. But my boyfriend always teases me in what he calls a playful way, but what I call an offensive way. I told him this and he got angry. He thinks it's so simple to put food in your mouth and eat when in reality of an anorexia, it's not since that's the fear. Plus, he's known the entire time that I've had an eating disorder for almost 7 years (turning 22 very soon), and he still doesn't understand. Maybe it's just a guy thing, I don't know. But please tell me who's being wrong. Me cuz I have an E. D., or him cuz he's failing to understand anorexia mentally, emotionally, physically, and cognitively. Or even the both of us.

im not wanting to receive any hate because anorexia is a serious health condition that affects many at such young ages today. I know my wrongs, but if you haven't lived with anorexia before, please don't hate on me cuz it's truly a difficult struggle for me from my past. Yes I'm in therapy to get help cuz it's driving me insane. I don't talk to my parents about it cuz they only make it worse

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Guy's Behavior

As a black overweight university female; How do I attrack the right guy? or how do I make a guy fall for me?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

How do I become more outgoing and fun; as a 20 year old who is overweight and grew up conservative?

Hello I would appreciate some advice; I’m a 20 year old female i'm currently in my first year of university and i'm quite an introvert! Even though I do converse with individuals and have quite a few acquaintances I still...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Health & Fitness

Body Positivity: Why I Jumped on the Bandwagon

For a long time, I was picked on by other students from middle school to high school for being 'fat' or 'overweight'. Even though I've been a firm believer in the fact that numbers don't define you, I was still affected...

SaraLovesUnicorns

Xper 5 Age: 28

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Dating

The Creepy Stereotype and Why You Still Can't Find the "Right" Person.

Guys don't worry, we're not "Creepers" we're just ugly. Don't worry, you're not really ugly, beauty is subjective. Everyone has there own taste and what they find attractive. What matters is being true to yourself....

Aristides

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Guy's Behavior

Confidence and Culture Shock

For a good period of my life, I struggled with the American notion of "confidence". It wasn't until I started to develop a very personal concept of what it is and what it means that I started to find something I could...

ak666

Editor Age: 45

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Dating

Best way to tell a guy I work with that I don't want to date him because of his size?

I have noticed that this guy I work with has liked me for about 2-3 weeks now. We only see each other 1-2x a week at work. He asked me to get coffee with him last week and I turned him down because I had made plans with a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Would this be a turn off and a deal breaker for most girls?

Iam a guy who loves food, a lot, and i love eating, for the past 20 years i've been eating whatever i wanted, and trying new stuff and eating a lot, iam not overweight though ( well i was til like 16) i used to work out...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Iam a guy who loves food, a lot, and i love eating, for the past 20 years i've been eating whatever i wanted, and trying new stuff and eating a lot, iam not overweight though ( well i

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Relationships

Girlfriend changed her tune?

When we met she said she likes slim guys like me and that I have a pretty face and all that. Good I said that settles it. She's slightly overweight and her hair is short but apart from that I'm attracted to her. She said...

jsisidore

Xper 4 Age: 39

Society & Politics

Why do a lot of men lie to women on GAG?

I mean when a clearly average/unattractive women asks for your opinion on how she looks, so many guys here say that she's a 7-10, and she's so beautiful when in all honesty she's a mediocre 4-5, at most a 6. Do guys...

Ly777

Xper 3 Age: 30

Health & Fitness

Guys, be brutally honest, am I what you'd call fat?

I'm really self conscious about my body and been battling with weight loss for years but just can't lose it. I'm sick and tired of looking this way but now feel like I may as well just settle for this body as it doesn't...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Why does it seem like in some instances, attractive girls get treated bad by a boyfriend, and a below average girl gets treated great?

-PLEASE READ- Now let me clarify, I KNOW it's not all about the way they look, and I know it can simply depend on whether or not the guy is an asshole. Also, I'm not saying that the less attractive girl is the one...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Guys, would you date an overweight girl?

A girl who is not obese but not thin either

Anonymous

(25-29)

A girl who is not obese but not thin either

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Dating

Guys, would you date an overweight girl?

A girl who's maybe 20 pounds above her ideal weight?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

Why does he keep glancing at me if I'm overweight?

First I have to say that I'm an overweight person, not enormously fat but you can notice that I have some extra fat here and there. I joined my local gym like a month ago to lose some of that shit. So there is this...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

What Body Acceptance is All About

Everyone is talking about it. Everyone has varying opinions on this. Here are my two cents on this topic. I used to be fat. I still am, but more of overweight. I have lost weight and still going on. Being fat sucks. You...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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