Search Results: he is not that into you breakups

Why was I called to help?

After 4 years if dating and 7 months engaged my girlfriend broke up with me because she didn't feel like we'd make it with our religious differences. It was an extremely difficult breakup and it devastated me. Within 8...

Anonymous

(25-29)

After 4 years if dating and 7 months engaged my girlfriend broke up with me because she didn't feel like we'd make it with our religious differences. It was an extremely difficult

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Dating

We had our first fight today?

My boyfriend of nearly a year and I had our first “official” fight as you would say... I’m not sure if it’s normal or if what we argued about was normal. It started off by me being in a piss ass mood for god knows why and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Why is she still on my mind? HELP?

I had a horrible friendship breakup with my best friend MONTHS ago. And we’ve had a rocky friendship ever since she moved a town away. She said at some point that we couldn’t be best friends anymore and I (like a stupid...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Break Up & Divorce

How do you deal with a ex-boyfriend that wants to come back into your life?

I’ll spare you the unimportant details of the story, but I have been separated from my ex-boyfriend for nearly a year. Our breakup was horrible. We didn’t speak to each other for several months, but one day I wanted...

1975Chocolate

Xper 6 Age: 30

Break Up & Divorce

How do you get over being a rebound?

I didn’t know I was a rebound until everything was falling apart. His ex case back into the picture and the relationship had already started rolling with us. I had given him my virginity which was the first big investment...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Breakup karma: Did she really hate me or was she trying to just hurt me?

So my last post I thought I found the one but it wasn’t. It ended up being the most toxic relationship ever. We broke up after we got into a fight while I was driving. So months later she randomly calls me from her new...

Mlmi8847

Xper 4 Age: 36

Break Up & Divorce

How long is it ok to wallow after a breakup?

I broke up with my boyfriend around 2 weeks ago, not because I don't love him but because he has some serious issues and it just got bad. I miss him like hell but still went completely no contact. Now all I want to do is...

caligirl03

Explorer Age: 41

Dating

Any advice on how to avoid shitty people when dating?

I see so many terrible stories on here in regards to infidelity and abuse. Women sleeping with their mans best friend a week after a breakup. Men and women cheating. Home wreckers. The list goes on. Just overall shit...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Match just for Sex or for more?

H-N-A

Xper 4 Age: 33

I am 26, Aquarius, graphic designer, Filipino/German. Been in 1st relationship from 15-20 years & 2nd from 20-25. After breakup I signed up on tinder cuz I am a sexual person.

I am 26, Aquarius, graphic designer, Filipino/German.
Been in 1st relationship from 15-20 years & 2nd from 20-25.
After breakup I signed up on tinder cuz I am a sexual person.
Met a guy there. He’s 21, Capricorn, Business Student, French/German.
He loves football, guitar, chess and karate.

Had first date at his place for three days by the end of April 2019.
We smoked & had such a great chemistry so we had Sex the first night. He was amazed by the Intensity. Probably because I am more experienced than him, what made it even more enjoyable for me.

The day after, we had casual conversations and he mentioned his “Belgian Girl” he fell in love with. & showed me his ex girlfriends on insta (Was that a strategy?) >stroked my ego and made me fall for him!

Haven’t chatted for a week after our date, then I initiated contact & since then we chat or have phone calls regularly.

He works with his boss on their startup in Africa until January 2020. Because I’m a Graphic Designer I started working for them what actually made up 90% of the contact and conversations.
He also offered me to rent his apartment while he isn’t here. So I moved in July 2019.
He visited me here for a week, because he had to repeat an exam. (I wasn’t the reason for his visit)
He brought me a souvenir bracelet (does it have a meaning?)

Got to know his roommate & she said he was “looking for a relationship but is a player and into taken girls.” His friends like me by the way.
When he and I chat, we never talk about sex. We actually became good friends and he trusts me (after this short time?)
He invited me to join him & his best friend to Africa in January (wouldn’t do that if he’s just into sex?)

Temporarily he’s in Hamburg (550 km away from my location) for three months before he goes back to Africa. He updated his Tinder profile. (Because I’m too far & he‘s too lazy?)
He has to pass by for three days by the end of December 2019, in order to repeat another exam.
He’ll move to France by June 2020 for 2 years.

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Break Up & Divorce

Do you think your exes know when they have humiliated you? Or are the usually oblivious?

I got the slow, drawn out breakup. One day he just stopped texting back. I would text once a week for about a month just checking if he would respond or asking if he was mad at me until I gave up. I was in initial shock...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

myReview

Why even bother with love? I know why!

We've all been here. Someone comes into your life, whether by your action or theirs, and they grow on you. You start seeing them in a different light, appreciate all they are, enjoy their very presence. Something about...

AlexanderBrunnrgaard

Yoda Age: 30

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Relationships

Why it might not be a good idea to date your friend

The McClintock Street memorial @Olderandwiser once wrote a great myTake about why you shouldn’t date your best friend . I respect his wisdom and advice, but there’s one thing he forgot to mention. If the relationship...

WhiteShoulder

Guru Age: 32

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Guy's Behavior

Guys: How into a girl were you if after breaking up with your girlfriend of a year within a few weeks you ask someone else out?

Guys: How into a girl were you if after breaking up with your girlfriend of a year within a few weeks you ask someone else out? Just curious. Is this how all guys think. How soon after a breakup (even if it wasn't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

What It's Really Like for Many Fathers After a Separation or Divorce

1) His rights are heavily dependent on cooperation from the kids' mother Fathers are often illegally denied even court-mandated visitation. A father can't simply file a police complaint if he's denied visitation. He has...

Avicenna

Master Age: 55

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Family & Friends

Friend break ups are the worst

In the past year, I have ended two relationships with two very good friends. One was a toxic relationship. The other was made worse by my friends alcohol abuse and a huge argument that we got into because of his lack of...

1truekhaleesi

Editor Age: 29

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Break Up & Divorce

Is it normal to hate life after a breakup?

I just feel so sad constantly. My roommate was talking to us about the sex she had with boyfriend in the car and I actually felt so sad because I missed my ex and everything we used to do. I honestly don’t see a point in...

_Emily_

Xper 4 Age: 26

Relationships

I have emotional walls, but I want to find the right girl for me, what do I do?

Okay so basically, I have emotional walls that I created after a breakup ruined my trust and after many breakups I just got tired of being hurt and just started blocking people out, not wanting to say personal stuff to...

mattl338

Xper 5 Age: 42

Break Up & Divorce

How to overcome after breakup?

I was into eight years of relationship and few days back she broke-up with me, i am not able to understand what to do further, it is very hard for me to make my self understand that she is not with me anymore. She is...

Edward-Branch

Xper 3 Age: 35

Break Up & Divorce

How do you react to people like this?

I've had instances of running into my ex or members of her family, and they try to start arguments with me. We broke up because of our religous differences and she was everything from insulting to a complete bitch about...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

I asked my crush out after she had a breakup and dont know why got rejected again?

Guys this girl is my friend and we have been friends for 1.5 year, I have been pursuing her since the beginning and she had been rejecting me since then. Around 6 months from now she got into a relationship and had a...

thehk

Xper 5 Age: 29