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They had sex for one time in 2007 after my fiance attempted suicide for his ex. According to him he was too week physically and total activity of the intercourse lasted only for 3 to 4 minutes. I don't know if it is possible or not. But I have now way to verify it.

His ex ended the relation in 2010. When my fiance cam abroad for PhD in 2012, he used to focus on his PhD only. But his ex used to text him after few months to know about his status. He used to reply but never initiated conversation from his side. According to him he does not have any feeling but he used to reply her to understand why she was contacting him. Then she asked his phone number and talked to him around 20 times in 5 years (according to my fiance). Then the girl got married in early 2017 and she informed him about the marriage.

My fiance finished his PhD in the end of 2017 and added his ex name in the PhD thesis as acknowledgement. When I asked him why did you add her name as you don't have feeling for her; he replied that he does not have any feeling for her, but she was in his life for a certain time, that's why he added her name along with all other friends' names and family members' names.

The girl contacted him even after she got married but he did not replied. Even she contacted him few months ago, but he did not reply as the girl is now married and he did not want to ruin her married life.

I added this details to explain what he explained to me. Please give you opinion and let me understand and take a wise decision. I want a happy married life with no worries. I want to trust my soulmate.

My fiance told me about the past sexual experience after 9 months of our relationship. He said he had sex with his ex just for 1 time. He never wanted to tell me this But shared this when i asked in detail of the relationship. At first he said it was just phone conversation but the truth is he had sex with that girl. He said after break up they were friends for few years. But after the girl got married, he stopped replying because he thought it's not good to reply to her messages.
He tried to hide everything from me because the past is a dark chapter of his life and he didn't want to bother me or himself. But he couldn't tell me lie when I directly asked him.
Can I trust this person to marry?

Regardless of their ages. in my personal opinion for a man is much easier to remain single for a long time and for them is irrelevant to live alone and have fun on their own in comparison to women.

For example, if a man is lets say single he is not dating or even have a girlfriend he could walk out on a bar alone and inmmediately start making Friends adn even if the guy goes alone to a bar and start picking ip some chicks to take home or to have sex with ( a total stranger to put and example) . Noone will judge the guy for that action, people judge the lady instead and could say "she is there to whore around) but why people do not judge men?
If a woman enters a bar by herself and sit and start to drink or eat something, not only is dangerous for being a woman per se but people could asume she is a lady from the streets and it is there to pick up guys.

Then for a single woman I believe it gets a bit difficult to make Friends as quickly as single guys do.
Guys do not have to worry of remain single his entire life, they dont get pregnant they dotn give birth, their clock is not ticking nowadays in this era, they seem to lost interest in marriage and committment on the contrary a woman hits a certain age and their clock is alrady ticking to see if she can get pregnant or not, most women still dream is to find their Price charming and marry cause that is the way women are taught since we were Little, even if now times had changed on that and most women marry late or no marry at all or no have kids anymore.

For example for me it is very very hard to make Friends or new Friends, in fact I dont have so many Friends and the ones I have are all married with families, the opposite as me.