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This guy and I were together for three years.. He was a lot of firsts for me and we were very close. He has always known he needs to end up with a girl from his religion but we got so attached at one point that it wasn’t possible for us to break it off. Eventually he left, etc. Six months later he is back but I told him I got a rebound after he left (who I left the minute we reunited). He is now being weird and only seems to want to sleep with me. He doesn’t want to talk as much and it often feels like he only wants one thing.. he gets upset when I bring that up and claims it’s never planned and that he feels like doing that with me after we meet up and talk for a little while. Is this normal? Is he just trying to turn me into an eff buddy... even after everything we went through together? Then why does he get upset when I accuse him of doing that? He can get whoever he wants.. so why not pick someone who only wants him physically? I am so confused and upset.. he also does this thing where he messages and says he can’t stop thinking about me.. :(

We’ve known each other for two years but haven’t spoken much till we got a chance to work together. The conversation started going really well - asked if I had a boyfriend and other personal questions. I told him I want to find a new accomodation and he said we could move in together. He texted me the same night to make sure I was serious. Then, went for a viewing but the place wasn’t nice. And then, I let him know I asked friends for help and if it doesn’t work out, I’ll start looking online. He said that’s good that both of us are searching. Then, I suggested we could hang out on our day off and he said yes. the next day, my friend was FaceTiming one guy I slept with last year and ‘my guy’ was with him at work. I only waved to say hi and that’s it. Then, ‘my guy’ messaged me if I was still coming over to his place for shisha and drinks with his friends and I confirmed and he gave me the full address. he also started sexual jokes like I want you baby, will we be eating each other, I will sort you out, stay over and we’ll go to work together the next day etc. I thought he was drunk so I was just joking but I put my standards - friends or something more serious. Next morning, he asked me to tell him what time I was coming because he had a training at his other job. He was running late and then made another sexual joke. I called to check if he left. He said he was very lazy and apologised twice. Then, I asked what happened that he suddenly started being sexual. He sweared he was just joking and he’s a serious guy. And if he had a chance, he’d come to see me. Then, I told him he can make it up to me. He said he’ll do very soon. I told him hopefully and I’ll let him take the initiative. He said ‘yes, I hope. Ok hun. You too’. Will he message me again or not? Do you think the other guy told him we hooked up that’s why he had a random conversation with me? Did I show him I’m a serious girl? Does he still want to move in with me?