Search Results: attracting jerks

Why is it what girls say on here is completely different in real life?

Here is a list of things that are contradicted in real life: "Personality matters more, looks only attract" But the problem is if you don't have good looks your not going to attract anyone at all. Everyone knows that...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why am I so attracted to emo/scene girls and how can I date one?

For some reason I'm really attracted to scene/emo chicks and I don't know why. I would be considered a prep (Abercrombie, American Eagle, etc...) so I'm like the opposite lol. For simplicity I'm just going to say scene...

Incredible_Isaac

Xper 4 Age: 35

Guys who don't want a relationship right now?

you make out/hook up with girls, but no one consistently. there's this girl who likes you, and she's told you she likes you, but you haven't done anything with her, WHY? I have a guy friend who I've liked for ages now,...

eyeofthetiger

Xper 6 Age: 37

We had an eye lock, then things got really strange!

A few weeks ago I caught the bus home from work . The only other passenger was a cute guy who I've seen most days on that bus for about nine months . I find him attractive but I had never flirted with him , just enjoyed...

titch

Xper 3 Age: 57

Society & Politics

Why are some guys just totally jerks to girls?

Why are some guys totally jerks? Is it because they like the girl, or they hate them, or because it's fun, or they think girls are attracted to it?

Anonymous

(30-35)

How am I supposed to find the woman of my dreams, when no doubt, other guys would want her too?

I really want to find the ideal girl. I'm a very committed guy, and homely, I don't have a rowdy lifestyle and because of that, I don't attract any girls except ones that I would never go out with. I feel like all girls...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Where do I go from here?

I've known this guy since freshman year in high school. We are now both approaching our mid 20's. I had a huge crush on him, but he was also a bit of jerk, so while I felt something I didn't really pursue it. Also, I...

LaNique

Xper 5 Age: 39

Break Up & Divorce

What are some of the big relationship mysteries that you can't understand?

Well, for me I don't understand why I end up with either jerks or the wrong guys. I'm 25 and at my age people manage to find a good partner. Don't tell me it's my attitude that attracts the wrong ones because no, it's...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why can't I attract men I like or attractive looking men?

All I attract are either ugly guys or older men. I like to think that I am fairly good looking. I have received compliments saying that I am. I have a nice size/body, I don't dress provocatively or anything like that. Is...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

I've noticed that strangers are being lewd with me and decent looking guys tend avoid me?

Hi! So, I've been played a lot in the past and I think it has had some weird effect on me. I fell for this guy and in the process lost a ton of weight. I started weight loss to look hot for the guy, initially (for like...

eternal

Xper 3 Age: 38

What type of guys do you attract, girls?

We all know that there are many kind of guys out there...some are jerks and players, others are caring and seem genuine...So, what I'm asking is: from your experience so far, what type of guys do you seem to attract more...

Juliana7

Xper 4 Age: 38

Girls say I intimidate them. What should I do?

I've had several girls tell me that I'm intimidating. It's like if they try to please me and give a good impression more than they do with other guys, but in the end it's just making them uncomfortable so it's not a good...

new001

Xper 5 Age: 35

Guy's Behavior

Ladies, what kind of jerk do you like?

Most girls are attracted to guys that a jerks in some shape of form, for example I find guys that are jerks through their humor. What kind do you find yourself attracted to?

CeliaCajun

Xper 3 Age: 37

How do you go about finding and attracting a good guy?

I feel like I want the bare minimum. Someone who is genuinely a nice person, has a sense of humor that meshes with mine, takes care of himself, and is actively career orientated, not someone who has a bunch of ideas and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Why is it that I can only attract jerks? All I want is a nice guy, who will respect me...

Seriously though! I'm a good girl. I don't party, I don't smoke, or do any type of drug. I dress nicely, get decent grades, and I know where I'm going in life. I'm 18 years old, a sophomore in college, and over the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

What is up with my coworker crush? Am I doing something wrong?

I starting talking to this coworker a few months ago. We seemed to have a lot in common and attracted to each other. He knows I'm the quiet type of girl and don't really talk to a lot of people, but it doesn't seem to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Difference between being a Bad Boy or Borderline jerk?

So, in my last question, I explored the concept of why nice guys are last. I consider myself a humble, shy, and honest nice guy and this hasn't worked in my favor at all. In fact, it's worked to the contrary. I'm...

mobiusforniner

Yoda Age: 39

Anyone else on here seem to only be attracted to jerks even though you know that's what they are?

they are right off the bat? It's like everything is telling you "Hey, this guy is no good!" but you still like him anyway. By jerk I mean guys who like to play mind games, give alternating compliments and insults, make...

Anonymous

(30-35)