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I don't know what the dating world is like anymore. Frankly, I'm not interested right now. Most of my attention goes to getting ready for my career. Once I've become the best damned massage therapist I can be, and start making decent money, I'll probably have a tentative interest in dating, but sex and romance have just never been huge priorities for me.

Joining GaG, I expected sexual questions to be a major focus. There's all kinds of experiences regarding how the opposite sex feels and feels about things that I am ravenous to know more about. I did not expect to see so many people on here winging about how hard it is to find a SO.

I can't stand this "Nobody settles for average guys" rhetoric I've seen on the front page twice in as many days now. I don't think there's even an inkling of truth to it. I don't like to rate people, it seems dehumanizing, but suffice to say I've known a lot of guys who are married to women most people would consider to be way out of their league, and vice versa. Not just in terms of looks, but when it comes to intellect, finances and charm.

It just seems like a big ol' pity party, and I can't stand that. I'm not super-handsome. I'm an oddball. I used to be super-skinny, but my metabolism is slowing down, and I feel fat now. My frame is still long and relatively skinny, but I've definitely got a bit of a belly; that's super-attractive, right? Just some gangley, fleshy boulder? xD I'm almost totally broke, I live at home, and I have to pinch every penny I have, because I'm constantly worried my financial aid won't be enough to get me through my degree and certification.

And... I still get interested looks, and the occasional flirting semi-regularly. Am I crazy? Is it possible I'm just incredibly, devilishly charming?

Enough listening to me talk. Is it really that hard to get a date now if you put yourself out there? Do you think their standards are too high, or they're just not meeting enough/the right people?

Tyler:
-Insurance Banker, $60,000 (USD) per year
-Has large extended family he's close to
-Has a son from a previous relationship
-Has a Ford Taurus
-Very masculine man
-Libertarian Conservative voter
-Likes control and dominance
-White male, dirty blonde, large beard, chubby
-6 foot tall dad body
-Romantic, pays for your meal
-Drinks a lot, easy going, Very smart
-Has only male friends
-Loves his son, plays with him
-His son exists because he refused to pay for his ex girlfriends abortion
-Opposes abortion
-Recieved a restraining order from his ex girlfriend for battery, case was dropped
-Former journalist with many awards
-Just $2,000 in credit card debt
-Bachelor Degree in Journalism
-GOOD credit
-Sexually agressive and dominant
-6 inch penis
-Current goal is buying a house

Steve:
-Case Manager, $36,000 (USD)
-Case Manager for Individuals with Disabilities
--Manages the care of 30 disabled men and women
-Received a safety award for assisting care during a seizure
-Loves children
-Disabled in program view him as a Dad
-Zero kids but wants them
-Small immediate family
-Not close to family
-Abandoned by mother at 3
-Father lives homeless
-Has PTSD, sexually molested by Mom
-Sees a therapist
-Has NO CAR, paying off debts
-Bachelors in Political Science
-Has a Masters Degree for Nonprofit Admn.
-$94,000 in student loan debt
-BAD credit due to past of poverty
-Once was unemployed a year and evicted from home after losing unemployment benefits
-Has credit card, $0 in credit card debt
-Stable job, large nonprofit
-Has management ambitions
-Metrosexual, Feminist
-Progressive Liberal
-Drinks only socially, goofy, funny, honest, but can be serious
-Very opinionated but charming and romantic
-5 foot 10 inches, Works out at gym daily
-6 pack abs, muscular athletic body
-Almost all his friends are women
-Enjoys poetry, literature, and Romantic Comedy
-Sexually sensual and loving
-8 inch penis
-Current goal is buying a car