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Search Results: confidence or insecurity
Can guys notice insecurities?
I know confidence is an attractive quality... but everyone is insecure in some way or another. Can guys see through fake confidence? "Fake it till you make it"? does that actually work or worth trying? By no means am I...
hollidolli
Xper 3 Age: 35 How do you tell yourself that you are pretty/beautiful?
I have a lot, and I mean A LOT of insecurities.. I am in my early 20s and I always have a feeling inside of me telling me I am not pretty/beautiful. I have always been getting compliments since I was a kid that I am very...
Anonymous
(36-45) What to do now that first date with ex went well?
My ex and I broke up 4 months ago while I was in NY. First I lost my temper out of insecurity for being away from him for too long(a month) and said we might as well be single! Then he said left wait and think and then...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do girls realize that guys are human too?
It's funny, girls always say they like confidence in a guy and want their guy to be confident. Yet, half these girls are low on confidence and self esteem themselves... I find this to be like a fat girl wanting a male...
Anonymous
(30-35) How can I make me not hate myself without therapy?
There isn't much I actually like about myself. I can think of two positives which are my hair and I'm nice other than that. I think I'm fat, ugly, boring, etc. No positives at all. One of the big reasons I ask this is...
snackeyg
Xper 4 Age: 36 Why am I so nervous around girls?
I don't know why I am so nervous around girls. It is like I wonder what she thinks about me, if she finds out more about me what would she tell her friends about me. Also when the time comes for me to go in for the kiss...
Anonymous
(36-45) Recommendations on weight loss programs/gyms/whatever?
So I've gained 10lbs since I started my new job and that hit me hard. I haven't been that weight in 3 years. I get paid next Tuesday and I'm going to join something. Either just a gym and work with a personal trainer, or...
snackeyg
Xper 4 Age: 36 The Chase Theory: A Compliment
This article is in response to The Chase Theory and the Psychology of the Shy Guy . Notes about Response: Although my responses to articles are usually sharply critical, this author has actually moved me. This...
jdcpa
Explorer Age: 39 Is he insecure or simply over me?
He (25) and I (23) met seven months ago. We hit it off immediately and after a month or so we were inseparable. He introduced me to all of his friends, his brothers, and we hung out frequently up until about a month ago....
Kris01
Xper 5 Age: 39 Are you the chaser or the chased? why?
the question is up there. I am always the chased. I wonder how chasers feel. Do you feel like you love the person more since you are doing the chase? Do you feel like you have the power since as long as you do the...
Anonymous
(36-45) Are my insecurities realistic?
I recently started dating my ex again. The amount of time between our breakup and getting back together was about seven months. The first time we dated (which only lasted a few months - most of which we were apart), we...
Anonymous
(30-35) How do you get confidence, fix insecurities, and raise self-esteem?
I'm gonna die alone if I don't. I'm never gonna talk to a girl in a way to get a date because of them.
snackeyg
Xper 4 Age: 36 Pretty girls who are insecure?
and I think I'm kinda bold to ask this question with out making it anonymous. but yea, I'm one of them. well...people tell me I'm pretty, but I feel like I see a totally different person when I look in the mirror. I used...
iamYASZ
Xper 3 Age: 34 OK let me see if I got this right?
Well OK after reading a lot of post, other stuff online and from girls in person think I can finally settle some insecurities for guys 1. Girls do like tall guys but as long as your taller than them your OK 2. Yes...
NerdyJock
Xper 3 Age: 37 So Are You Really A Nice Guy?
People always consider themselves a "nice guy". We have this duality of "nice guys" and "bad guys", right? Nice guys are the ones who are caring and loving, and who would never do anything that would harm their...
Scrap the Dating Rules
When I was in my 20s dating was so easy. I was carefree and spirited. I did what I wanted to do when I wanted to do it. My focus in life was enjoying life and now and then I would run across someone that I wanted to...
minnie12
Xper 5 Age: 60 Hot girls in the bar?
well here we go.. my friend texted me that we will be chilling with the girls he knew.. it was like a date.. unfortunately when we get there, our dates ditched us... it was suppose to be the unluckiest night ever..for...
Jasper5566
Xper 5 Age: 36 Do I have to be a b**** to get a guy?
I'm being totally serious. I had this discussion earlier with my sister who's ex is a total loser and cheated on her and was never happy with her. Which is really stupid when he will never, ever find anyone better than...
Anonymous
(36-45) I'm too clingy?
I don't consider myself to be incredibly unattractive, but I'm not 100% happy with how I look either. I have some acne, which is to be expected as I'm a teenager and I also have acne scars which damages my confidence...
LemonCake
Xper 3 Age: 34 How do I feel better about being 26 and never having had a romantic relationship?
I've always been a shy person since around middle-school age, and have had confidence issues. I've got quite a bit of social anxiety; I'd like to be enthusiastic and have fun in social situations but instead I'm usually...
Anonymous
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