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I know this person from school and that we are in the same organization. Our friendship was falling apart, because there had been so many misunderstanding. It seemed like it has only about me respecting his wishes and not about "compromising" after knowing him for a while, when he seemed like a caring person at first. I am a very caring person, I struggled to make a decision as to cut the friendship, or should I try work it out with him.

Before the first 'break' from my end, with no talking to him, he told me that he is more than happy to greet me and talk to me in the group only (he doesn't think we should hangout outside the organization). After that 'break' that lasted 4 months, I recently had a Zoom call with the organization. Him and other members showed up, and we all had great times. He appreciated me for the rides when we hangout and do stuff in the past. He also asked questions he would like to know about me, and answered questions I asked about me to the whole group. Everything went well at the Zoom chat for my birthday and I think everyone had a great time, including that person.

Few days later, I messaged him to invite him to continue this friendship. He had basically told me the same thing. He thinks the boundaries is healthy for us, that it is not because he doesn't like me as a person. He also said that he cares about me as a person, that he want to continue serve me in the org (he is a group leader), and that he still wants to be there for me ("... just in a different way"). Most everyone else in the Zoom chat from the org have told me that I am the light in the room, full of (positive) energy. It was a relieve to hear that.

I personally think it is not anything personal against me, but this seem to be in the middle of me cutting him out and being an actual friend. I never encountered such situation and I do think that friends do hangout and talk not just in the same org they are in.

I've never called or texted this girl; we've only exchanged numbers because she said hi to me at the same school we go to and I asked her for her number. Just about a few days ago I added her on Snapchat via contacts, and surprise (!) she added me back.

Interestingly, she consistently views my stories on Snapchat. Most of which are reposts of my own videos from TikTok (mainly food, comedy, music/lip-syncing; occasionally politics). She never unfriended me or anything so we're still friends :)

This is the first time in about six months I have had anything to do with her since I was fired from Target.. she never ever told me she has a boyfriend or anything but every once in a while I check her Instagram and she had two different boyfriends as I recall (one of whom is her current boyfriend) that boyfriend of hers is 18, but the girl is 19

I'm 20.. and I have a feeling women are into older men even if they have a younger boyfriend since they tend to be more mature, secure, professional, king-like, monarchic, and this girl doesn't really post anything on her Snapchat.. but she views my story every time I make a post..
by the way I'm a semi-Trump supporter (I post hilarious musical stuff to appeal to Trump supporters) and this girl is a cute Mexican girl with some mixing of European.. I used this IG Stories website to view her story and during early June in regards to George floyd / Breonna taylor stuff going on she put a story saying black lives matter but that performative activism was just as much of a stupid idea as staying silent in the injustice..

her boyfriend is east Asian from what I can tell... and I am a middle eastern armenian kind of guy.. funny thing is I do have two tiktok accounts, one I always keep away from my snapchat and instagram friends and family...