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Ok ladies and gentleman... especially those of you with some years of experience and relationship experience. No offense to the 18-24 year olds, but they think a bit differently than us 30+

I will quickly give you background on my relationship with this girl. I met her 6 months ago in a professional work environment and gave her my business card to call me. She contacted me 2 weeks later and we met for coffee.. We proceeded to meet several times where I began to feel even more attraction to her and I kept hitting on her. She told me because I was married that she was reluctant to date me. She put me in "The Friend Zone".. We went out a few times and I didn't give up. Long story short, she and I came to a head one day when I was pressuring her to go out with me and she said "Sam, I don't feel an attraction to you that way, and I'm still getting over my ex who I loved a lot and went with for 5 years, I have no room in my heart for you!"

I walked away for 5 days with no contact and then one day, she blew up my cellphone with texts wanting to see me. We began to date and had sex that night.. She seemed to enjoy our time together and as friends we got on great! The sex was amazing, we did some very nasty things that we both enjoyed and first time for both of us! She then began to tell me she just wants to be "Friends with Benefits" as she just doesn't love me the way I seem to be into her!

After about two months of dating, her sister who is a total head case and lives in Salt Lake City with their parents found out about us and told her parents. My girl is 32, and the sister is 35.. has 4 kids and her husband abandoned her.. she seems miserable and continues to go to my girl (her younger sister) for support and friendship... they're on the phone all the time and texting non-stop! The sister told the parents (who are both ministers in a church) about

Ok I've posted before here for advice about my now ex girlfriend. So here's the deal a few weeks ago me and my ex of 1 and half years broke up. She fed me the whole distance and spark was gone deal at first right. So I took that at face value figured their was something else that was an issue but left it alone cause I waiting for her to vocalize what it was. Fast forward a week and half I get a FB message from a former close friend of hers saying she basically cheated throughout the whole duration of our relationship. Me fucking pissed called her to finally get the truth still giving her the benefit of the doubt. Later that night she calls me says she did in fact cheat on me at this party like 2 months ago but tells me the FB message is far more exagerated. At this point Im devastated because I loved her with everything cared for her like no one before has and for her to do it shit killed me. My biggest issue was the fact she didn't have the courage to tell me with so many opportunities beforehand for example the last time I saw her she came to my house to get all her stuff I asked to to sit down and talk with me cause I knew her first reasoning wasn't the full truth. NOPE! She Leaves and I kinda start getting over it.

Ok now fast forward another week and half which is today feeling much better she calls me telling me her reason for cheating was cause she thought she could get away with it. Goes on to say there were 2 other times she cheated so now the story has changed again! Forgot to mention she tells me about how she slept with a dude after we broke up didn't really care but thinks she might be pregnant now doesn't know if its mine or his 😑 and Im just like wow now you're gonna be linked to someone who you dont even love for the rest of your life good job. so we got off the cheating topic and she says she misses me loves me and wants me to go on a date with her and I'm just like... WHAT? 😑

It sucks cause I do still love and care for her but the pregnant thing kills it😕