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Search Results: insecurities fear
The Chase Theory: A Compliment
This article is in response to The Chase Theory and the Psychology of the Shy Guy . Notes about Response: Although my responses to articles are usually sharply critical, this author has actually moved me. This...
jdcpa
Explorer Age: 39 Boyfriend is petrified of love. Leaves when things get difficult. What should i do?
I'm 31 F, he's a VERY mature 23 yo Marine. We met about a year ago & started dating. We fell madly in love with each other. A few times we got into a few arguments for somethings but they always were resolved the same...
belabela
Xper 3 Age: 47 Getting over an incident that happened while my boyfriend and I were on a a break, or should I still be worried?
My boyfriend. and are almost engaged and only some money issues are standing in our way,but our constant fights and my insecurities over the smallest things (e.g. the songs he posts on facebook) led to a break for about...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why do people treat others badly for liking/loving them?
It kinda happened to me, like how girls always complain about guys treating them like garbage because they opened up to them, well I don't know why, but this girl made me feel like an idiot for liking her, like she threw...
Anonymous
(30-35) Scrap the Dating Rules
When I was in my 20s dating was so easy. I was carefree and spirited. I did what I wanted to do when I wanted to do it. My focus in life was enjoying life and now and then I would run across someone that I wanted to...
minnie12
Xper 5 Age: 60 Oy vey! I am lost & sad..
A past ? says my history w/this guy. Basically we re-connected via Facebook while he was on deployment. He returned & wanted to start a relationship. I didn't. Actually, I did but my fear held me. See, a few years before,...
Anonymous
(36-45) Am I being a controlling girlfriend?
I am aware that I have a lot of trust issues and I have been working on it for the past few years. I was in a verbally abusive relationship for 6 years from age 18-24. I am now 29. He cheated on me constantly and I never...
nicol08
Xper 3 Age: 45 Throw A Player A Twig But Give A Trunk To The Shy Guy. An Article On Shy Men For The Ladies
SHYMEN101. Pow. I know the aggressive males are so appealing to a female, because it fits the media or propaganda projected image of what a man ought to be. You get one, and too often their brains are just full of jello....
itssimplekeepitreal
Xper 5 Age: 37 Keep breaking my own heart. Advice?
Over the years I've come across some great chances to finally gain a girlfriend. But every time I find someone special, I descend into shyness and negativity. Doesn't matter how cool or nice the girl is, I just seem to...
Anonymous
(30-35) Trying to get over the fear of getting hurt and insecurities?
I have never had a girlfriend, the girl that I have gotten the furthest with seemed to have been playing games with me. Others girls that I have liked and had any progress did the same thing. So when it comes to trying...
Anonymous
(36-45) Reasons for rejection... Typically out of shallowness or what?
People get rejected all the time, but what do you think is the main reason? Is it out of shallowness mostly, or do you think its other factors? Could there be fear, a lack of trust, insecurities, or are people just...
Anonymous
(30-35) In Response to The Princess Dilemma
This article is in response to the article, The Princess Dilemma . To save everyone time: The article was basically motivated by a guy who feels it is unfair that men make all the effort of forming a new...
jdcpa
Explorer Age: 39 How can I better prove my love to him?
Hm, the question sounds much more intense and negative than the situation actually calls for. The issue I am experiencing is that I'm currently with the most wonderful gentleman I've ever had the privilege of meeting, I...
Anonymous
(36-45) Getting over fear and insecurities?
I am trying to figure out how to get over my fear of my insecurities to actually start to take more risk (actually to don't know how to kiss and still a virgin. Don't want to actually put myself out there and try to do...
Anonymous
(36-45) How long should I wait to contact my ex boyfriend after he broke up with me?
A few days ago, out of no where, the guy I've been dating for about 4 months sent me a 3 page email saying how he wants to back this down to being just friends for now. He recently has been offered a great opportunity to...
Anonymous
(36-45) 25 Signs To Know For SURE He’s Not Into You!
1. Accommodating but not engaging This is a precursor to a relationship failure. When you look at his placid smiling face, it is probably just his penis smiling back, he knows he is no longer into you but his sex drive...
mikethemasterdater
Xper 6 Age: 53 How do I feel more confident in my relatioship?
I've been dating my boyfriend D off and on for 9 months. We've been through a lot together and because of each other. We have finally gotten on the right track and deeply care for one another. He has proven I can trust...
beth1116
Xper 5 Age: 37 Does he really only see me as a friend?
I met my ex last year in May of 2008 and we started dating in December. We were together for about 11 months but right around 7 months I started pressuring him to introduce me to his family and start talking about us...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) She's apologizing and asks me to forgive her, what does this mean?
Me and my ex broke up after 6 month together, we loved each other.. Cut a long story short she was really insecure and got so jealous. I have girls that are friends which some she wasn't very fond of. I always used to...
kanespoocci
Xper 3 Age: 39 I became insecure, can the relationship be saved and if so how?
I have been dating this guy for a few months. The first month was great, but then we went from hot to warm. These last couple weeks things have changed even more, he texts/calls less, we are spending less time together...
Anonymous
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