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I'm worried that the person I spend my life with will be below my current standards. Is this a legitimate concern?

I used to have very high standards, but I've gotten rejected so many times now in HS that my standards are starting to drop, and I go into talking to an attractive girl expecting to get rejected. I fell HARD for a girl...
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I only like good looking guys. What should I do?

My first boyfriend was good looking. I don't know if that's the reason why but I want to date only good looking guys. I can't help myself from frendzoning average guys. I like them as people when they have good...
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Stay single or compromise?

So, both genders have standards (picky if you want to call it that) and they vary from individual to individual. Are you willing to settle or would you rather hold out and reject virtually everyone in search of that one...
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So, both genders have standards (picky if you want to call it that) and they vary from individual to individual. Are you willing to settle or would you rather hold out and reject Show More
Stay single
Settle for someone
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Any relationship/dating advice for a timid guy?

So I am very shy, insecure, timid, etc. i have been trying to get a girlfriend for a year already but no luck. i go to the gym, I go out with friends. I study and try to take care of myself. I even read books about...
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Guys, are rebounds usually downgrades?

My ex boyfriend totally rebounded with someone I was um... very surprised by in terms of not at all being his "type." My question is do guys usually have lower standards for rebound chicks?
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Lonely have u lower ur standards?

has anyone been so lonely in love that they dated someone they really did not find attraction for?
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How can we boost our fertility rates in western societies?

It worries me that our fertility in western countries (Uk, japan, italy...) have a rapidly declining fertility rate. How can we boost it? It is due to a hell of a lot of reasons (not saying these reasons are bad or...
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She didn't the break up very well, but I feel guilty?

I know now that I used this female I dated to get over someone else/not feel alone. I manipulated things for everything to go my way. I wasn't aware of it at the time. But I played along with her genuine feelings. She...
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Men why do you judge women so hard for their number of partners?

I think it's because many of you are conservative or because you feel inferior. Possibly even jealous that a woman can get laid more than you. I think it's stupid to feel that way. Just like people tell women to...
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What does it mean (Tinder)? Forced to lower standards?

I tested TInder for a while and I ma usually matched only with average and below average girls whom I am not completely interested in. However girls who I am really attracted aren't very often matched with me. It's sad...
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Do you think people on the rebound are even remotely interested in the reboundee?

Having been rebounded twice, it has messed with my self esteem and confidence, but it makes me wonder if the ones on the rebound remotely liked me or was it just physical attraction? Do you think they lowered their...
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Two worlds collided that never should of met?

She was a disaster when I met/dated her. She started dragging me along. But than she left me and my life little by little started becoming better than it ever has. But now her friends and family who I was once okay...
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Manifesto for a Happy Earth! aka How to end Violence Part 4

People have the tendency to induldge in counter productive activities. We lost simplicity in our era. And there is majestic beauty and surprising complexity in simplicity. It's not simplification, it's not degeneration...
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Did you notice how so many girls whose ex-es were attractive, but now have a less attractive sexual partner, are so mean and disrespectful to him?

it's almost like they're buthurt and then they try to cope with unpleasant situation by turtoring current sexual partner by using emotional, physical and financial means. For women it sucks so much when they don't have a...
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If a journalist writes an article that is 80-90% true about a political issue, is this sufficient for you?

Personally, I feel that journalists should be 100% accurate. If they can't completely verify something, they shouldn't include the information. But it seems a lot of these politically charged websites are lowering their...
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Personally, I feel that journalists should be 100% accurate. If they can't completely verify something, they shouldn't include the information. But it seems a lot of these politically Show More
80-90% true is sufficient.
No! It must be 100% accurate or don't print/post it.
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How do I lower my standards in guys?

i have this vision of what it's suppose to be like and I think I'm very picky when it comes to guys I have trust issues so I think that's part of the reason. I see my sibilings in their relationship and I just don't think...
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I feel like I have to dumb myself down to land a relationship today, is this normal?

I feel like Im too smart for the dating world. In order for me to explore and possibly land someone, I have to dumb myself down to fall for all the bs people do today when they date. I feel like I have too much common...
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Do you think the military is a place for women?

The only case I support females in the army is in the case of conscription. Men shouldn't be treated as disposable citizens, at least not exclusively depending on your thoughts on involuntary draft. Outside of that,...
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Why do people that are from the year 1960s hate on the generation that are in their 20s?

It's like everywhere I go this people that are in their 50s hate on our generation and I am starting to hate people that were born in 1962 they think they rule the planet and act rude and disrespectful to the young...
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Girls, Can a guy who is 21 and lost his hair young (shaved bald now) (read description) afford to have high standards on girl looks and personality?

I lost my hair to a time when I was very weak and ill now I recovered however my follicles do not so I shave the thin stuff that is left. Now I don't mind it, many say I look good for being bald and white etc however I do...
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I lost my hair to a time when I was very weak and ill now I recovered however my follicles do not so I shave the thin stuff that is left. Now I don't mind it, many say I look good for Show More
I'm over 30 (hope you understand why I want peer opinions for the poll, given my young she ther are the target audience however your opinion is welcome in a comment)
Yes, a young guy with no hair can still get a very attractive looking girl who's nice if he's a decent man who treats her right etc
No if a guy has no hair this young it will be hard for him to get a girl who's above average looking in my opinion
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