What does it mean (Tinder)? Forced to lower standards?

[Anonymous]

I tested TInder for a while and I ma usually matched only with average and below average girls whom I am not completely interested in. However girls who I am really attracted aren't very often matched with me. It's sad because I met there the ones who seems to be my 100% type.

What should I do? I can't force attraction

[Blueeyes81]

I wouldn't call it lowering your standards but more of being realistic.

[Asker]

I can't force myself to be attracted to someone I am not attracted only because it's available option ;)

[Blueeyes81]

And neither can the woman your attracted to. So either be realistic or deal with a lot of rejection.

[Mrwoo99]

Tinder is a waste of time unless you've won the genetic lottery.

[Chanel1981]

How does the app select matches?

[Asker]

Generally photos

[Chanel1981]

So you aren't attracted to the matches they're sending you?

[Asker]

I am not usually matched with girls I am attracted to. I just tested if I will be matched with average/below average girls and yeah I am matched with them quite often, but it doesn't matter because I am not completely attracted to them, so it's waste of time ;)

[Chanel1981]

If you aren't attracted to any girls there perhaps it's time to find another avenue.

[Asker]

What do you mean by "another avenue" ?

[Chanel1981]

I mean for dating. If you're not attracted to anyone on the current site probably time to move on. Have you tried any other dating sites?

[Anonymous]

You use the app because?

[Asker]

I want to meet someone interesting. Potental girlfriend ;)

[Opinion Owner]

People use it for hookups