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I've been dating my boyfriend (online relationship) for a full year - there's an age gap of 6 years (I'm older) and our races are different. I was supposed to meet him last summer, but he broke up with me once over the fact that he wasn't sure if he wanted to be with me. I'm his first girlfriend and he didn't know what to expect. He didn't like that I wasn't blonde and feared our future because of our differences. He hurt me a lot with his lack of faith in our relationship and promised me he wouldn't do it again. We ended up somehow making it through that and decided to meet again this summer.

He asked his parents 2 days ago if he could meet me and his dad had 3 issues:
1) age (he believes that it never works when the woman is older)
2) race/culture (obviously there are gaps, but I love him and if he loves me, we can make it through.. we Skype every day with dinner.. so we know how we eat anyway.. things like food shouldn't be an issue)
3) religion (we are the same religion, so this one wasn't an issue)

He took all his dad's words and examples into consideration and is now doubting our relationship again.. after a full year. We were so close to meeting and now he wants to meet on terms of "not a guaranteed reationship" and is not sure how he feels about me. What do I do? I've done so much for him this past year.. I've gone out of my way to make him happy and he turns around and hurts me so easily.

ps: Just two weeks ago.. he hung up on me in the middle of a call when we were having a disagreement and deleted me from Skype just to see how it would be like to be without me. He added me back after a day.. saying he missed me. This is all just crap.. Please help me clear my mind. He said he will not make up his mind until he meets me.. what should I do?

So i know my boyfriend for 3-4 years. He's 4 months younger than me.
Sp we hooked up in one birthday and my brother took it really bad cause they are friends. But after a week he gave us "green light". He told him than he can't hurt me cause he'll put him in hospital (beat him if he hurts me).
So after a week after a birthday we started to dating. Afrer second date. He asked me and i accept. He was really nice to me and i liked it. Well, he doesn't have much money and when he get it from parents he spend it on cigarettes. (We are 19 so we are on college; don't have much money). He payed on first date, my and his drink, but since than we only go in parks. Also problem is that he doesn't talk as much as i do and when i stop talking it's quiet. He also wants too much to make out. First time we meet on first date he said that he wants to kiss me but we made out. i got his tongue in my mouth in that moment ours lips touched. I was really surprised, i didn't expect that!!

So i know it's not mich problem but i don't want to say to him that i don't like how he kiss. I like it but it's too much. I have impression that he like he wants make put every time he has opportunity.. don't know what to think help?