Search Results: nice guys always end up with mean girls

Why do I feel so paranoid and timid around others?

Yeah... I'm so paranoid when it comes to socializing. With friends, with girls, anyone... If I walk past someone who happens to be laughing, I start to feel bad 'cause I think they're laughing at me. I'm afraid to be...

StrangeKid

Xper 5 Age: 35

Why am I always really sarcastic and harsh to people I have a crush on?

Like, if ever a crush ends up talking to me either online 'cause they got my email off a friend or in person. I'm always cold to them... and start being pretty nasty about them in my head. Okay, don't get me wrong, I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

The Princess Dilemma

I reference the “Princess” type of girl quite a bit in my posts, and that’s because I believe the majority of girls suffer from this dilemma in their dating and relationship choices. First, I don’t want to take...

WaitingAtTheDoor

Yoda Age: 44

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Do girls mistake intimidation for something else with guys? Like that they're a threat (but really aren't)?

I was thinking... I'm a really good dude with strong values and I take the road less traveled. Every time I express interest in a girl, she totally freaks, it seems like. She gets all paranoid and starts to act awkward...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Whats wrong with this retarded girl

hi guys and girls, at uni there is this girl who has really weird behaviour towards me. we happen to be in the same groups and she is very rude and bossy. we are sent every week on clinical placements, just me and her in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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Why is the dating world so backwards? Being good and sober doesn't do ANYTHING for me!?

It really is... drug-addicts and substance abusers (things I always thought were unattractive... personally, idk) end up getting getting GF's before a clean. sober guy like me. I always have people, even peers, saying,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

To all the guys, will it ever be right again or is it a waste?

Alright so this might get long and since I can't ask him, I'm ask you all what you think. So as every story goes, I've been really good friends with this guy for about 6 years. We dated for a year and it was honestly the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

My ex wants to hang out? how to get him back?

So I'm confused . I was somewhat dating this one guy...It wasn't official because when he tried to I just basically rejected him (BIG MISTAKE) OK I'm going to make this short and get to the point. We only seen each other...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Time to move on?

I've been seeing this girl for the last couple of months now. It was complicated to start with because I liked her and she liked me. At the time she was with a bf, but we would spend time together and act very much like a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How does he feel? Need major help

okay so here's some background.There's this guy I've been talking to recently probably for about three months that I met through a mutual friend. We texted a lot before we hung out and he was always the first one to text...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Very confused by this girl

there is this girl in my class, well was in my class its the end of the semester. basically I like her, she is nice and sweet and cute in her own way and we would see each other frequently, all the time in the halls, in...

fedorfan100

Xper 5 Age: 35

Close guy mate that takes a liking to fat, manipulative, bitchy cows?

So, I'm 17 and I have a 19 year old best guy friend (Adam) who is really confusing me at the moment. Basically, he tells everyone how much he doesn't want a girlfriend, but every now and again he'll fixate on a...

courtneyjade92

Xper 4 Age: 34

Girl's Behavior

Will you stop thinking comparitively?

What is the deal with all of the girls comparing everything? They compare their looks to everyone's but themselves, their lives to TV shows and songs, and their men to what their friends want. Can't you be original and...

ihatecopcars

Xper 5 Age: 38

I'm a good guy that needs some dating advice... How do I get a date? Does playing hard to get REALLY work?

OK, being the nice guy or the good guy, I have a good head on my shoulders... Something people tell me all the time. "You're a great guy!" "You're going to make a lucky lady VERY happy one day!" I hear it a lot... But...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I have a real problem, let me know what you think.

OK so since this school year started I have been on only one date, but since that one date which really didn't go anywhere (instead of doing what I wanted we ended up running errands with her, and when it came to dinner...

Mikecity

Xper 5 Age: 37

Why do girls make judgments on what guys are just friends or something more?

I mean a lot of good looking guys end up in the friend zone... typically the nice guys, the ones that would never do wrong to a girl. And what if that nice guy ends up falling for the girl? Nope! he's just a friend......

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

I need help moving on from something very intense that ended suddenly?

Jim and I split 6 months ago, after just one month, he told me he never felt like this. He was so intense calling me everyday telling me how happy I made him, how he never felt like this, how he wanted me in his life....

adsong

Xper 5 Age: 58

My friendship with my crush is dwindling

What's going on? In my head I'm upset because ever since I told him "I like you", first he was scared. Then I gave him a letter that told him to chill out. So he did, he's not nervous around me now, and It's SORT of back...

kayrose

Xper 3 Age: 33