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Search Results: paying for the first date
What do you do for guys to justify having them pay for you?
As much as it causes me real distress and pain to endugle women's entitlement to have me pay for date with them, there's a point where me respecting myself and my values just isn't practical anymore and I have to give in...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why is this girl im talking to say a guy friend of hers is paying for them to go on a trip?
This is so strange. I took her out on a date and didn't know she was dating and didn't ask. I asked what her plans were and she says her guy friend will pay for her to go to New york and San fransisco. If I was him I...
104755555
Xper 6 Age: 30 Ladies and gentlemen, THIS is why you're single!
The most common question I see on here is 'I'm (insert age) and have never had a girlfriend/boyfriend. Why not?'. Now, I think I have some pretty good insights into this, that I've decided to share. Please note, these...
GingerBear
Xper 7 Age: 30 Women say their objectified but?
https://www.youtube.com/embed/0uLI6BnVh6w But women are objectified? Are men starting to get objectified to and if so when can men start saying with credence that women and men are equally objectified because one of the...
alonzoslade
Xper 5 Age: 35 Girls Are Just As Shallow As Guys
Even as a guy, I had always believed in the idea that guys are generally more shallow than guys when it comes to relationships. Guys are usually far more interested in sex than girls are and tend to care less about their...
BoldEnigma
Xper 5 Age: 27 Why do I have to chase men?
I'm not sexist, so I never assume that it is solely the man's job to approach me and court me. However, in my young adult life, I've noticed that the only time a guy puts effort forth into getting to know me (at least in...
HyperOrphic
Xper 7 Age: 32 Girls, should I cut bait and run or give her time?
Facts: She is seperated, had a rebound boyfriend that ended, changed jobs, is moving and getting new transportation, has known me for a little over a year. Me: All cliche things one could imagine that makes a man...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Guy with girlfriend asking me out knowing I have a boyfriend?
Hello all, I have this male friend who has a girlfriend they've been together for two years. We started chatting a bit and he knows I have a boyfriend as I often bring him up anyway the conversation was friendly hellos...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why did he go so far as to block me? Why behave that low class?
I just returned from a one month trip with a guy that I might have dated, but it didn't work out. However, I was still open to being friends with him and wasn't planning to go to extremes like blocking him. Anyhow, I...
Anonymous
(36-45) Ex and me still love each other, does he really want it over?
We had been together 2 years, moved in after 1. Were very serious bout each other, planned our lives together to move out to Aus and had even talked about the possibility of marriage one day. When we were first dating I'd...
pandah
Xper 6 Age: 38 Why does dating have to be a game?
In today's day and age dating has become a relentless game of cat and mouse, heartache and pointless flings. People try to evaluate the person too quickly instead of actually getting to know them as a whole. It has really...
Anonymous
(25-29) First Date Expectations: The Liberated Woman's PoV
With so much contempt for feminism these days, and what is expected on dates with women, it’s important to know that the first few dates are especially important to make your first impression a good one, regardless of...
Going into depressive state over crush, can someone help me figure out the situation?
So I've known this girl for almost a year now, but didn't start talking to her until about 3 months ago and since then we have talked almost every single day. I decided to finally talk to my friend about it who then got...
TB825
Xper 4 Age: 26 Will this ever get better, or am I being played for a fool?
I've been with my current boyfriend for almost two years. At the beginning of our relationship, things were going very well. We had a lot in common and he seemed to be enamored with me. I am a horribly lonely person by...
TechieMatera
Xper 6 Age: 34 Any straight guys out there just plain given up (seriously completely given up) on women?
I'm a straight guy in my early 30s. I have had my fair share of women (slept with around 25-30) and had one serious girlfriend in my life. While I had my moments in the past I have lately found that things are getting...
Anonymous
(36-45) Summer fling or potential relationship?
I've been chatting online with this guy since mid-February, and we finally went on our first date almost 3 weeks ago, and have had 5 dates so far (zoo, museum, movie and dinner, aquarium). We usually meet each other...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why I think so many men online become bitter and resentful and turn away from women
As a 21 year old who has little experience with women and spends a lot of time on the Internet (like the rest of us), I have been suprised by how often women mention confidence as their main requirement for men. It has...
Anonymous
(30-35) How to deal with my depression?
So recently I've been depressed because of my social isolation. First of all I couldn't fail more with women. I like women so much but at the same time I wish I didn't. They demand so much time and effort. They never...
Anonymous
(30-35) Guy says he likes me, never frees his time?
An ex of my best friend has recently (within the past 4 months) become interested in me. I was interested in him, but wanted to get to know him better so I took things a little slow for the first 1-2 weeks to be sure...
HannahDJA
Xper 5 Age: 30 Is it wrong that I paid for stuff on date #2?
First date we split cost of lunch. 2nd date I paid for concert tickets, he paid for a drink. Will it make him not want to pay for future date? Does it make me look desperate tht I paid and initiated both dates? My...
Anonymous
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