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Hey guys, I'm new here and wanted some opinions about my LDR.
I'm shy by nature, like being frank, and I'm for serious relationships. When there's a problem, I try to fix it, but often it causes more harm...

So, it all started after highschool, when I was 19 in 06/2014.

I've never really got the occasion to get in touch with girls even as friends. But then a girl came to me on facebook. We chatted a lot on internet day and night. Then around a month later, we met once (or twice lol) and one night we decided to talk about a possible relationship since we both really liked each other, and we both agreed.

We stayed quite far from each other (~1h30 by bus). She had an ex (around 4yrs older) and she's the shy girl with all guys trying to get her. The problem is that, 2 months later, in September 2014, I had to leave for uni studies abroad in France. It was already a kind of 'LDR' in my home country, but we managed to date a few times, as friends.

Then I left for France, only to be coming back 11months later. While away, there were 2 times where 2 guys wanted to date her. I tried to warn her but thought I was overjealous, and in the end I was right. We had occasional fights but then in 12/2014 we had a big discussion as she was always against my personal decisions about privacy for our relationship. This, combined with other arguments made me step out again for 4months. Then I came back to her, we got together again, and soon I was back in my home country. We dated again, and kissed for the first times. 3months later I left again to come back in 2yrs. After a month (now), our LDR got bad again due to arguments and I stopped talking to her again. .

We still love each other. I love her bc she's the rare kind of good, kind, caring, loyal girl. She loves me too for that. But I'm afraid losing my time due to endless arguments, our LDR fell into an endless hole, and trying to get out just seem endless and hopeless.