Search Results: understanding a guy

The Silent Struggle of Male Vulnerability and Women Who Dont Care

Every have a wife or girlfriend that comes to you with her vulnerability guys? Men are culturally expect to comfort them and show strength and understanding. Be her rock, as they say. Ever notice that when a guy opens up...

Apope16

Editor Age: 39

14 12 See More

Did he blow me off or am I overreacting?

I've been seeing this guy for 7 months now and we usually see eachother every weekend once a week and he's usually the one to initiate contact to meet up. He wanted to see me last week but something came up that he had to...

BronzeQueen

Xper 5 Age: 28

Did he blow me off or am I overreacting?

So I've been seeing this guy for 7 months now and we usually see eachother every weekend once a week and he's usually the one to initiate contact to meet up. He wanted to see me last week but something came up that he had...

Lexiohxo

Xper 4 Age: 28

Need help understanding this behaviour?

So basically I met this one girl and we started hitting it off really really well. So we talked a lot, she teased a bit naughtily and all. Yet after all that she tells me that there sa guy she has a huge crush on and that...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why is my husband chasing after this girl?

I’ve been with my husband for five year and two years ago I accepted the fact that he is always going to have women on the side. I don’t care as long as there is no drama in our home and as long as I’m his priority....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Would introducing Zwarte Piet to America ease race tensions?

Zwarte Piet is one of Santa's closest friends and workers. He's well known in Belgium but not so much elsewhere. Now I know you Americans have a lot of race problems and you don't all get along. Blacks face discrimination...

purplepoppy

Master Age: 26

Why do people not understand me? Why do I not understand other people?

To be fair, I do understand them. It’s like an understanding of human nature. Thing is, I’ve always been one to try and defy human nature where I believe it is the right thing to do. I’ve always hated “locker room talk”...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you think I should ask this guy on a second date?

I liked this guy on Hinge. He liked me back and we chatted a bit having a good but brief conversation. Then a week went by without chatting, he messaged me apologizing that he had been occupied with a personal matter and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do girls actually like nice guys because I really think they dont?

I consider myself a nice guy. Im nice to everyone I meet im never a dick unless they are to me. Im pretty understanding with people. Im also kind of shy unless I know you and I think it makes me come off as boring...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I’m confused by what he means?

Me and this guy has been talking for about a year. At first it was just two friends having “fun” then we began to stay over one another’s house. It became more than just “fun.” We started to spend time with each other,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I ask my manager to do this for me?

I’m on very good terms with my manager. I consider her like an older sister even though we are 20 years apart. I’m 19 and she’s 39 lol. Anyways I have a crush on this really amazing guy at work. He’s very friendly...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

If you want to forgive someone who betrayed you do you still see them as good people or accept that they are not?

My ex boyfriend broke my heart because I felt like he didn’t love me. But I forget that during the time we knew one another I was going through a lot. I stayed with my parents and had a lot going on, I was facing...

Anonymous

(25-29)

He blew off our first date, what now?

So basically I met a new guy and had a first date with him scheduled yesterday afternoon. I didn’t hear from him most of the day and when I finally did it turns out he was at a friends funeral, I had no idea. I had no...

Mvs609

Xper 4 Age: 38

Relationships

The Horror of Ghosting

Yes, this is a common thing. Yes, it's already been written about. But I want to give my thoughts on it. I’ve been talking with some people here about ghosting and seen some questions about it, so I decided to do my own...

ManOnFire

Editor Age: 39

16 34 See More

I dont understand people. Why are people so random?

First of all, I have a mild case of autism so for me I struggle with understanding social cues. Sometimes I can pick up on signals and understand particular things. What I dont get is when people joke around. I was at...

Rocknroll93

Xper 5 Age: 33

Confessions of a Ladies Man-The Truth About Sex and Ego?

Like all grey areas of moral indignation, my road to becoming a ladies man--dating dozens of women an slaying multiple partners per year--was paved with good intentions. I am a sexual abuse survivor. More importantly, I...

Alicesffdf

Xper 2 Age: 35

Should I just stop talking to this guy?

Okay so recently for like the past month, my boyfriend of almost 4 months has started ignoring my texts. I know people get busy and I understand that but instead of him just telling me that he’s busy, he would just not...

Anonymous

(25-29)

If a guy is a logical/reasonable type and a girl is more on the emotional side is there compatibility?

Do they have trouble understanding the girl? Will it ever be a match or should they give it up.

Anonymous

(30-35)