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Both my sister and the guy are 19 year-old college students. He asked her out and she said ''hells nope, bye''. She has her reason for it though.

Background:
They used to attend the same middle school. Meanwhile he used to get bullied (by both girls and guys) for being short, shy, wearing glasses and was super skinny, my sister (she always hated bullies and fake people) liked him start. He ignored her the whole time. One day she was brave enough to compliment him. However, to her shock... he made a disgusted face and said ''you're not the girl I like''.

He continued getting bullied till the ending of 9th grade. He made some changes such as hitting the gym and working out a lot. Eventually he reached his max growth spurt (6'2), stopped wearing glasses, got heavier and built some muscles. Suddenly, he was getting somewhat popular and the girls that called him loser started liking him. He told them to get lost. Then recently he asked my sister out for a date and she rejected him.

My sister definitely doesn't like his new look, finds the muscles disgusting and thinks he's too full of himself.

Just as a bully's parents are responsible for raising a kid with little empathy towards others, can the opposite be said too?

If the parents don't teach the kid life skills, how to stand for themselves and others or get them involved in social activities then that might play a role.

In my case I was just fortunate to have been friends with a kind, popular crowd consisting of 3 girls and a guy. If anyone tried messing with me, they would take care of the matter immediately. Along the way, I gained social skills (ex: never look down and hide when someone is talking to you) and became more streetwise; things my parents never taught me.
I could have easily become a bullied victim if it weren't for their empathy towards me.

My younger brother on the other hand wasn't so lucky. He's now 22 and has resumed therapy sessions. He never gone out on a date, never enrolled in college and barely has friends. He suffered more bullying in HS amd started getting thinner at some point. Though I blame my parents. They spoiled him a lot more than me. My parents tied his shoes until he was 12. He was way behind in his development and super naive (worse than me). At the age of 17, his parents and I were still doing all his homeworks, he couldn't even serve his own breakfast (nor boil water nor fry an egg), go to a grocery store and buy things, etc.

If you don't know, Morgan Wallen is a pretty popular country singer right now. I live in the south and hear about him so much. While I do like his music, most of the girls who I hear talk about him lust after him. It's not just "oh he's cute" it's "MORGAN IMPREGNATE ME" type stuff lol. I know a lot of girls are into the country boy look, but really a mullet? I just don't understand. I've even seen girls from the north going on about him online. So, is he cute in your opinion, and if so why? *he's the guy in the plaid shirt in pic*