Girls only want good looking/rich guys?

[Groove24]

Admit it girls. You don't really give two s***s about ugly/poor men and only invest time and love to the good looking/rich guy. I mean when was the last time you've seen a girl partnered with an ugly/poor guy? Because NEVER IN MY GAHDAMN LIFE ever seen a couple like that. Neither an ugly/poor guy with female friends and I don't think there's any evidence.

I have experienced and observed all of this. Back in my high school/college days, I wasn't that popular guy due to my appearance and financial status and now I work and a girl I know there feels like she's not interested in me. I've seen couples of my age everywhere only to see girls with good-looking/rich guys and they're just so depressing to look at.

I, and ugly/poor men always get treated like garbage every damn day and its really frustrating and degrading at the same time. Everywhere I see in real life and social media, only good looking/rich guys are with girlfriend or female friends and even more girls flock to them.

So why the hell is being with an ugly/poor man so boring to you girls?

[Anonymous]

Facebook has been giving me random friend suggestions recently. About two hours ago, I got one for this gorgeous girl. I looked at her profile to see if we had mutual friends and saw she was engaged. Her fiance's profile shows a rather plain-looking, chubby guy. When it comes to guys, I'm not good at telling handsome from ugly unless it's extreme. But this guy was not what I'd have assumed girls as pretty as his fiance would have gone for. Yet here he was; engaged to this beautiful girl without being some jacked-up model. He isn't rich either.

Not all girls are as shallow and materialistic as you think. Still, if you're only looking at the girls that would qualify for beauty pageants and modelling careers, you'll find quite a few women with such expectations of men.

[bencipriano]

Beauty is subjective and the way you feel about yourself translates so much more into your interactions than the way you actually look.
Raise your level of self-confidence and things will start happening.
And remember, someone who would only be with you if you had money is not someone you would want to be with anyway.
Learn to love yourself outside of a relationship, and without desperately looking for one, and in time it'll happen.

[bencipriano]

By the way, no one is under the obligation to feel attracted to you for whatever reason you think they should.
Don't vilify all girls because of the very few you interact with.
Instead, find a more productive way to deal with it and move on.

[Groove24]

few? More like a lot mate. How can you even move on from something like that which repeats itself time to time?

[bencipriano]

Yes, @Groove24, very, very few.
Do you know how many women live in your country? The number of women you actually interacted with, in your entire life, is not even close to enough to make that assumption.

If you're looking for validation, you're not going to get it from me, I can tell you that.

If you're actually looking for advice, be a little more humble and take it for what it's worth.

[Groove24]

Alright dude. No need to get salty here...

[bencipriano]

No one is getting "salty", @Groove24, whatever salty means in this context.

You ask, people answer...
Isn't that the point of this whole network? lol

[Rica_ChicaUSA]

You know what's really funny to me? How the guys on here are soooooo unconfident in themselves it's pitiful. If someone posts about feminism (no, I'm not a feminist), the guys on here go crazy. If a girl posts about the kind of man she likes, all the other guys go insane and call her racist, gold-digger, or whatever it is that excludes them. If she says they don't meet standards, God help them because it's gonna be WW3. It doesn't matter what is posted, basically the guys on here in general go insane if they are excluded from meeting any kind of standards. Just so you know, everybody of both genders has completely different standards.

Have you ever thought that what we really want is confidence, and that's why you guys on here can't win? lol

[Fei_Zhu]

I don't know exactly where you're from but those girls you've met are basically gold diggers and the kind that have a distorted set of priorities when looking for a guy. However, please don't label all girls like that because there are some who actually don't care about looks or financial status. I, for one, have been in a relationship with a normal looking chubby guy who isn't even that rich for more than 2 years and we're doing great. It all stems from what you're looking for in a relationship and what I can say is that don't give up. There are girls out there who see past looks and money. I can guarantee you that

[Groove24]

Well the girls I knew and met were somewhat hypergamous. Its so hard to find a girl like yourself who will actually accept you for whoever or whatever you are. I just wish that girls would understand that not all of us guys are rich and hot or combined.

[Fei_Zhu]

Yeah, one of the things that add to this trait in women is the world's perception of beauty and what a relationship should look like. People romanticize the wrong things and this plants a skewed and unrealistic standard of a perfect man. There really is no perfect man but some girls just have a hard time dealing with that fact

[Groove24]

Yeah agreed. Just wish women would start seeing that not every man is perfect in every way.

[Anonymous]

I've actually seen some very pretty girls with very plain or unattractive guys who also happened to be losers, for what it's worth.

However, not all girls are like this at all. I've always preferred average guys and don't care how much money they make as long as they have a job and put in the effort. I made more than both of my exes (significantly more than the first) and both were considered average looking and even unattractive to some.

[Groove24]

Everywhere I go, I always see girls with hot/rich guys only. Through high school and college then now in the real world which really worries me and hinders my chance of ever having a girlfriend or female friends. There's barely any girl like yourself who would look past those things.

[SeachingForMyCalling]

From how I see, being ugly/poor is sometimes a lifestyle. I see it that people like that have bad hygiene and are horrible with their finances. I know that there are times where being poor/ugly isn't a choice but that's how I see it

[slatyb]

What do you think? That 10% of the men have ten women each while the other 90% are single their entire lives? That women have an obligation to date men they aren't attracted to? Stop whining about how unfair it is and get out and have a life. You don't have to be wealthy to attract women. Having a passion for something helps, whatever it is. What's yours?

[Anonymous]

This shit is annoying we aren't all beeping shallow or gold diggers who only want a rich men I would never reject a guy because he doesn't have a lot of money I know damn well what it is like to be poor and not even have 1 cent to your name to afford to buy bread to eat

[Gunwinchester]

It’s not like that.. most of the girls want a person whom they can trust and whom they feel safe with and who has a good heart.. it doesn’t matter if you are ugly or not rich if your personality is great.. it’s the other way around tbh.. like guys don’t like girls who are fat or ugly !!

[Groove24]

To me it's never been the other way around really.

[Optymistyk]

Why don't you just go and find yourself a poor ugly girl?

Or you could improve yourself. Love is a warzone my friend

[justawhiteman]

Not all girls are after money! Some not all.. there out there you just have to look harder.

[Groove24]

I am trying. It just feels like a never-ending cycle.

[justawhiteman]

Maybe change up your approach... Give a different first impression or something

[Groove24]

They always give me this aura that they aren't interested in me.

[justawhiteman]

well could it be your appearance?

[Groove24]

Always hated the fact that girls will only talk to you if you have the looks of Brad Pitt or a young Leo.

[justawhiteman]

I think its cause girls have a preconcieved notion that most men are into outward apperance and value not inward..

[justawhiteman]

which is simply untrue

[Groove24]

yeah its untrue. I value the inside more than anything.

[justawhiteman]

yep same here bud... plus im a shy guy so the chances of me finding love is slim to none.

[Groove24]

I know that feel bro 😢

[Anonymous]

What about the other way round. There are ugly girls that men don’t look at. Have you seen Shallow Hal?

[dwiller943]

Nahh... Just the superficial girls you and your dick chases after.

[Therisinghero12]

Sounds like this is coming from a negative experience, hope you get better soon my guy, you deserve love too.

[PrinceOfAljazeera]

girls want your bank account, hence where the " gold digger" theory came from. and do you really think any girl on gag would admit it? oh hell no

[Anonymous]

Well good looking isn't absolutely necessary if they are rich, it's a bonus. But women care about money above all things. It's all about having the ability to give her what she wants without effort.

[wittymilf]

This shit again🙄. Some spaz did this last night.

[Groove24]

Pretty sure most people here ask these kinds of questions too.

[Groove24]

They all need help and answers.

[wittymilf]

You definitely need help. That’s for sure.

[Groove24]

Not all of us are perfect.

[wittymilf]

Hahaha haha

[wittymilf]

Ok soz. None of us are prefect. Unless it’s on social media. That’s fake so let it go.

[Groove24]

I'm guessing you're only after rich/hot guys. Not surprised if that's true.

[Groove24]

ok scratch that. Soz too

[wittymilf]

My husband has a brain injury and hasn’t worked for 13 years. It’s silly to judge.

[InfobotsMom]

So you go after ugly girls then? 🤔

[wittymilf]

I knew your son! Small world!

[InfobotsMom]

Haha 😂 Yeah, I'm now his momma 🤓

[wittymilf]

Incestuous!

[Anonymous]

It's called Hypergamy, look it up.