Im 34, never had a girlfriend not by choice, poor social skills, no social circle, no friends, haven't been on a date or had sex in over 4 years. I have a long list of female rejection mostly from women I have stuff in common with and find attractive. In the end, this has caused me to be desperate, depressed, lonely, and hopeless of ever having a family. From what I've seen out there, most attractive women are only marrying atttactive or hot men and rejecting the rest of us. Well, im one of the guys you have rejected along the way to your boyfriend or husband and distain the pain rejection has caused me. To me, any woman who rejects a man and doesn't offer to help him find someone else that is a good match doesn't truly care about my well being. A lot of men like me dont even try anymore because the damage to our self confidence has been done. It's a shame this has happened to us but when you give women the right to vote, management positions, dominate the education system, sexual harassment training, and an easier time in dating, the end result is low confident men. Where's the training and support for men to become confident and successful in a world with hardly any role models? You expect us to approach and date but hardly any men these days get 2nd dates. Why do women think partying and sleeping around with other men and women is attractive. A good portion of men in this world want a faithful, nornal, non-partying women not women who enjoy being single and sleeping around. I wish more women did the work in dating that men have to bear. You expect way too much from us. Most men aren't rich, good looking, or good with people. I hate approaching women of all types and getting turned down in under 3 minutes. Women, you need to change because you have become unfriendly, undatable, and unapproachable. Realize that any man who approaches you regardless of looks or age had a lot of courage just to come and say something, anything to you.
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Whilst I sympathise with you, no individual (of any gender) owes a stranger anything - their attention, affections or otherwise. However whenever I reject a guy, I let him know why and the reasons. It doesn't make it easier, buy at least it's not just a cold shoulder. I also give him a right of reply, which some actually do utilise, but some will accept the rejection either bc they agree or just I'm not worth the effort (which is fair play)