Search Results: lost and confused

I am confused as hell?

I re connected with my first love from when I was a teen early last year. We hooked up and had sex quite a few times. We haven’t had sex in 6 months. But the thing is, I have always loved him. I poured my heart out to...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Break Up & Divorce

Could this be why he started to act distant toward me?

I recently found out that my boyfriend has knocked up his ex. He confessed it to me yesterday, almost a day ago. He has been blowing up my phone with texts, calls and voicemails. Apologizing and asking to see me etc but...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Why has he pulled away for no reason?

I started dating a co worker and we have been on a few dates and have slept together. He would text me every day and through the night but the last 2 days he did not respond to my last text. I have to be honest,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Why did he text me after no contact for 4 years?

There’s a guy that I used to be close to in hs. We never dated, but there was a certain level of interest. After awhile, we lost touch when he moved away. Over the years we’ll lose contact and then one of us will message...

Lovelylady92

Xper 4 Age: 34

Dating

Why do guys lose interest so quick?

There is this guy at my work that used to be into me & at first I wasn’t but I decided to give it a try. We started talking and eventually went on a couple dates, everything seemed fine but nothing ever happened between...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Health & Fitness

Does this weight loss/muscle gain appear healthy? Please read my story below?

In 2016 I hit a “low point” and wanted to make a change, not only for myself but for my future. I’ve been wanting to go on this trip to Africa for years now and wanted to not only be in shape for it but prove I was...

blackdiamondxtra

Xper 1 Age: 33

Girl's Behavior

Girls, what's it mean when you ask a girl out and she says she got a boyfriend, but continues to flirt with you?

This happened to me in 3rd grade of high school (I'm 4th grade now). There was this one girl I met who was flirting with me in a very obvious way, and her friend was a wingwoman to her once, then when I realized she...

Shevach

Xper 3 Age: 23

Break Up & Divorce

Guys, What should I do?

Me and my ex got back together after separating 5 Months ago. We started to move forward and then I ended up becoming pregnant. I thought things would be perfect but everything just went down hill from there. He told me...

Leeleemariee23

Xper 3 Age: 29

Break Up & Divorce

What does needing space or taking a break mean to you when you request it to a lover or when you hear it requested?

I packed some of my belongings and left with my children. I told my man I need space and a break. I couldn't take the ill manner he been treating me since my post in Oct which I'll admit I wasn't very forth coming with....

meetkitty123

Guru Age: 38

Girl's Behavior

What is she thinking and how do I respond?

I have a coworker whom I've known for over a decade, before I met my wife. We were emotionally close but we never dated. Despite this, we'd email each other, play pranks, go to lunch, and leave notes for each other. She...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Boyfriend ignoring me, don’t know why, help?

Okay so I can’t sleep and I’m kind of freaking out. My boyfriend (15 months) hasn’t opened my text messages on Facebook or opened my Snapchats in 2 days. We normally text all day every day. We at least send 15 to 20...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Boyfriend hasn’t opened my texts in 2 days?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Can being in a abusive relationship cause you to need help mentally?

I don’t know why or what it is but each and every time my boyfriend hits me just because he gets upset at the smallest things and loses his temper, he apologize s and I forgive him. I even tell him I forgive him after he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Newly single and Confused guy?

Married 8yr dedicated and committed.(Cheated on the whole time) and wasting almost a decade, lost all the women that liked/loved me. Where do newly single meet online now?

Darealjebus

Xper 3 Age: 39

Break Up & Divorce

Can anyone give me advice on my confusing breakup? Why did my ex go to the girl he told me not to worry about?

I hope that everything I say will make sense. I will be using fake names to ensure privacy. Let’s say I am “Rachel”, my ex-boyfriend is “John” and the side-girl is “Emily”. John and I began our relationship almost...

Lucy45

Xper 3 Age: 26

Girl's Behavior

Should I unfollow her and just move on?

I met this girl from another state when she was in my town. We hit off like crazy. We talked all the time and made plans to meet. We planned the trip for me to visit and the day before I was supposed to fly out and meet...

rufaro88

Xper 5 Age: 38

Dating

Was he just an asshole?

Guy I was dating for 3m ended up not wanting a relationship. I felt like he deceived me because I told him from the start that I didn’t want a friends with benefits situation and later told him I had a problem with...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Health & Fitness

What amount of calories is good to lose weight?

I was doing 1200 then after a few days I’m too hungry to continue, so I go back to 1700. I’m so confused. What should I do? I noticed the scale stays the same after a month but clothes fit looser.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Does he want me out his life?

I meet this guy this guy his 42 , and I am 29. we talked by may and June a little , his dad fell ill and he went to Minnesota. I checked on hm, but we lost connection, only two month later he came back and he wanted to...

gi121mm

Xper 3 Age: 34

Guy's Behavior

Weird situation?

i went to a function and a guy who has a crush on me. from what others said watched me napping and tried to go through my phone which i left on a chair. he now also has the almost identical glasses as me? i have nothing...

Anonymous

(30-35)