Boyfriend hasn’t opened my texts in 2 days?

[Anonymous]

Okay so I can’t sleep and I’m kind of freaking out. My boyfriend (15 months) hasn’t opened my text messages on Facebook or opened my Snapchats in 2 days. We normally text all day every day.

We at least send 15 to 20 texts a day. He has been online lots since but hasn’t opened anything I’ve sent. We also had plans for him to call over to my place yesterday. He didn’t open my text enquiring when he will come over.

So I’m freaking out and so confused. We had no argument. A list of things are going around my head, he’s breaking up with me, he’s cheating, he’s lost interest. I’m going insane what should I do?

[Gooblegobble]

Ask him what is wrong, but be prepared to deal with a line of bull shit if he doesn't have a really honest reason for this. If you want to talk to someone, you just talk to them. There's no leaving messages unopened. When I'm really into someone I drop what I'm doing to respond because they are a priority to me.

[Asker]

But that’s the part that’s confusing , he literally texts me every day and always replies, this just happened all of a sudden which makes it weirder. I can’t ask him because he hasn’t replied to the other texts and snaps

[Gooblegobble]

Unless he has had some kind of medical emergency to keep him from his phone, there is no reason except loss of interest that I can think of. Maybe he just needed a few days to himself, but after 15 months he should feel comfortable enough with your relationship to not only let you know that, but also discuss how he is feeling with you, as a partner would.

[dmgstarfleet]

Maybe he found out something- is there anything you’re keeping from him?

[Asker]

No nothing that I can think of. I haven’t cheated on him. I wouldn’t do that. He is still missing and it’s day 4 now I’m getting extremely worried. He’s been online but not opening my messages

[In_Trance]

Did you call him?