Hey hey. I bet this question is a common one.
Well, I've been with my boyfriend for a year and 3 months. We've never had a fight or argument, really. We only see each other on the weekends (45 minutes away), but every since we've been together we've texted with each other every day...except the last 2 days. On Wednesday, he didn't text me until 10pm (he worked from 5:30a.m. to 8:30p.m., and even then it was just a "You a no good koala" (he calls me koala) and a funny picture. I texted back with a "LOL" and then he texted goodnight about an hour later. I texted him goodnight as well with "Koala <3 U"
Thursday comes and goes without a text. I saw he was on Facebook, liking and commenting away. Nothing for me. No text, nothing on Facebook. I was super sad and even cried before I went to sleep.
It's Friday, and I know for sure he's had the day off (he told me his schedule on Monday) and he hasn't texted me at all. Usually he texts me to see if we'll be seeing each other on the weekend, which is 95% of the time.
I know I shouldn't freak out because I know he loves me (he tells me and shows me all the time), but I can't help but feel a little unloved and disconnected.
What do I do? How should I respond if he asks why I haven't texted him? I don't text him because honestly it doesn't feel good for me as a female to chase after a man. Any input would help. Thank you!
Well, I've been with my boyfriend for a year and 3 months. We've never had a fight or argument, really. We only see each other on the weekends (45 minutes away), but every since we've been together we've texted with each other every day...except the last 2 days. On Wednesday, he didn't text me until 10pm (he worked from 5:30a.m. to 8:30p.m., and even then it was just a "You a no good koala" (he calls me koala) and a funny picture. I texted back with a "LOL" and then he texted goodnight about an hour later. I texted him goodnight as well with "Koala <3 U"
Thursday comes and goes without a text. I saw he was on Facebook, liking and commenting away. Nothing for me. No text, nothing on Facebook. I was super sad and even cried before I went to sleep.
It's Friday, and I know for sure he's had the day off (he told me his schedule on Monday) and he hasn't texted me at all. Usually he texts me to see if we'll be seeing each other on the weekend, which is 95% of the time.
I know I shouldn't freak out because I know he loves me (he tells me and shows me all the time), but I can't help but feel a little unloved and disconnected.
What do I do? How should I respond if he asks why I haven't texted him? I don't text him because honestly it doesn't feel good for me as a female to chase after a man. Any input would help. Thank you!
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I texted him and we continued life as we do. We were together the weekend. I didn't even bring it up. I want to have confidence/trust in our relationship and him, so we hung out as we do and had a blast. No drama. Just lots of TLC and kisses and we banged A LOT. LOL
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