Well, I've been with my boyfriend for a year and 3 months. We've never had a fight or argument, really. We only see each other on the weekends (45 minutes away), but every since we've been together we've texted with each other every day...except the last 2 days. On Wednesday, he didn't text me until 10pm (he worked from 5:30a.m. to 8:30p.m., and even then it was just a "You a no good koala" (he calls me koala) and a funny picture. I texted back with a "LOL" and then he texted goodnight about an hour later. I texted him goodnight as well with "Koala <3 U"
Thursday comes and goes without a text. I saw he was on Facebook, liking and commenting away. Nothing for me. No text, nothing on Facebook. I was super sad and even cried before I went to sleep.
It's Friday, and I know for sure he's had the day off (he told me his schedule on Monday) and he hasn't texted me at all. Usually he texts me to see if we'll be seeing each other on the weekend, which is 95% of the time.
I know I shouldn't freak out because I know he loves me (he tells me and shows me all the time), but I can't help but feel a little unloved and disconnected.
What do I do? How should I respond if he asks why I haven't texted him? I don't text him because honestly it doesn't feel good for me as a female to chase after a man. Any input would help. Thank you!
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Now I've did the same thing to my Girlfriend (we're dating for 8 months), she made a big deal out of it and we kinda almost broke up. I just needed some time to chill, I told her why I didn't text her, and than she cryed even more, yeah lol. But we got back togeather. Now don't be a overly atached Girlfriend but you have to text him and try to solve it ( no drama!) . And at some part of the relationship a girl should chase a guy, because that way you are showing him that you care about him and you want to be with him blah blah blah, the same thing that he does to you now you have to "repay him" by chasing him for some time AKA TEXT HIM! And try to be drama free.
"at some part of the relationship a girl should chase a guy, because that way you are showing him that you care about him and you want to be with him " ...
Dumbest bullsh*t I have ever heard!
But a guy chasing you and doing that he shows that he loves and care about you isn't the dumbest bullsh*t you've ever heard? Let me guess you're single, and don't try to deny it.