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My bf and I broke up about 10 days ago completely out of the blue due to his depression that he's had since 4 months into our relationship (we had dated for a year) and he has been in therapy for it. He had been saying how he felt so much worse than usual the two weeks ish before this happened but he gets more depressive episodes that come every few months and last a few weeks before snapping out of it, so I figured that's what this was. He called me one night out of the blue after he stopped answering me in the middle of a sweet conversation, and he was freaking out saying he couldn't do this anymore and he was so confused and depressed but didn't want to break up. We went on a break and I sent him a long encouraging sweet text a day, but a few days later we broke up. He said he was so depressed, wasn't happy with anything in his life including us, didn't feel in love with me, but wanted to remain best friends because he still sees me in his future and would want to try again? we talked a few times since then and it was light and friendly, but now he's ignoring me everytime I try to contact him (im trying to get my stuff from his house). he's suddenly ignoring me and avoiding me and his friend told me he isn't really talking to anyone, but he asks about me and there's no chance of him wanting to date someone else. I'm just so angry and confused because I want to see him and talk to him and get the story from him bc guys aren't going to be all emotional with each other. This was so out of the blue, just days before he was telling me how I cleared the mess in his head and I meant the world to him and he loved me so much. I asked him when we broke up if he meant those things and he said of course he did. How does that change so quickly? How does he suddenly not love me. He's being so confusing & I hate it. He doesn't know what he wants. I can't even explain how much I love him & how wonderful we were, we adored each other and had the most loving& caring relationship

The title are made up names just for referencing.

The following aren't precise definitions, but my attempt to describe what I mean the best that I can:

"Cool Femme Fatale" refers to a woman who is cool, "badass", assertive, very confident appears even slightly dangerous. The kind of woman who looks like she could run your world without even trying, a woman you can't mess with easily and who knows what to do to have men following her as if on a leash.

"Cute Innocent Pixie" refers to a woman who one might sooner call girl on pure instinct. A woman who looks gentle, sweet, innocent, submissive. Usually is cute, appears vulnerable and even childlike. A woman who makes you want to protect her and a woman whose sexuality appears mixed with this innocent demeanor.

The poll is aimed at guys, but girls are welcome to vote for the one they feel they are more like. ^^