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Me and this guy keep going back and forth. We started as friends with benefits and hooking up. We then started admitting our feelings for each other. I said everything first because he is very emotionally unavailable and can’t express his feelings. He then stated he wanted to be with me. However he would only tell me these things drunk and told me not to tell him what he said sober. If I bought it up he’d get withdrawn and ignore me. But he’d keep hinting at love in an odd way and stuff so I told him I had feelings for him (he said feelings means love) I ask if he has them back ( which means love) and he says I don't know. he won’t ever openly say how he feels. I then get frustrated so next time I see him I nag him kinda about how he doesn’t like me. He says I ask the same questions however he’s never straightforward. I then asked him f he had feelings for me ( which he SAID It meant love to him) he told me he LIKED ME BEFORe never told me he had feelings but he kept saying I already told u. Is that his way of saying he does love me or is he playing?

basically the tradition is girls ask the guys and i dont know if i even should. I mean he's a senior and im a freshman and we're pretty good friends so im scared of ruining things but sometimes it feels like he does like me back so hopefully he says yes... im not sure if i should do it in person or over snapchat. originally i was gonna snap him saying "hey ____ so I've had a crush on you for a bit and was wondering if you wanted to go to the dance with me? if you dont wanna thats fine, we can forget this ever happened" but im a bit iffy on the last part because i dont wanna say it but i also want him to know things won't get awkward afterwards. but not i kinda wanna ask him in person, i mean it makes me super nervous to even think about it but i want to a little. i was thinking of just straightforward saying "hey i like you and was wondeirng if you wanted to go to the dance with me?" and if he says no ill just say "okay thats fine, no hard feelings, see you later". but i have no idea on how to respond if he does say yes... so basically i need ideas on how to ask him and how to respond and opinions on if i should ask face to face or over snapchat.