Search Results: talking about marriage in a relationship

Is he obsessed with me, or does he love me?

from day 1 i made it clear that i cannot handle relationships. I’m divorced from an abusive marriage and can’t stand feeling like I’m being controlled. I have ptsd. He is 7 years younger then me but ever since day 1 has...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Does it mean that he just doesn’t see me in the close future?

Hello! Sorry for my English, not native speaker. Me and my boyfriend together for year and a half now we have distant relationship and sometimes I was joking that we will marry and etc (we are 22 years old). I’m not crazy...

Karmen11223

Xper 4 Age: 33

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What does love ACTUALLY feel like?

Im not talking about sex, I know what that feels like. I’m talking about being in a relationship/marriage and it being healthy like, how do you know what you’re feeling is actual love or just emotions at random that...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What should I do?

Ok so long story short, I had a thing with this guy for a couple months. I found out he was planning on moving next year so we decided to stay friends to avoid the dramatic end before he left. He also mentioned how he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My boyfriend ghosted me?

I thought my relationship with my boyfriend was going really well we were talking about marriage and babies and I was so excited. We had a disagreement and over text message he told me he is not willing to fix our problem...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

I go the same church as my ex boyfriend and his wife (the girl he left me for). What would you do in this situation?

He was my first boyfriend. He fell in love with his coworker, a fellow church attendee and left me for her while in our 2 year relationship. Prior to leaving, he courted me, talked to my parents, and promised me marriage....

Anonymous

(30-35)

What should I believe? My family or the internet?

I'm 20 I've only ever kissed and held 1 girl. In general I'm a pretty outgoing person and never really have too much trouble talking to people. I really want to share my life with someone eventually but I have some major...

bjkahlid

Xper 3 Age: 28

Break Up & Divorce

I fucked my friends husband. How to make peace with that?

I will ignore comments that clearly didn't read the description. Youve been warned. My friends in a poly relationship. She has a boyfriend, as well as a husband. The husband does not have any other partners, only her....

BaileyisDarcy

Editor Age: 28

I believe my husband still has strong feelings for his ex-girlfriend. Is this cause for concern?

Me and my husband have only been married two months and I am starting to have some doubts about our future together mainly because I feel that he is not over his past relationship with his ex-girlfriend. When me and my...

Tayshia

Xper 4 Age: 31

boyfriend talks/texts other people? What is he really doing?

NoName453

Xper 4 Age: 38

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months. We started talking 5 months before that. [(He broke up with me after a month because I wouldn't sleep with him. But we got back

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months. We started talking 5 months before that. [(He broke up with me after a month because I wouldn't sleep with him. But we got back together.)((I waited for marriage with my exhusband and I view sex differently than others do. He was very abusive that is why we are no longer together.))] Anyway, he broke up with me again in November saying that he couldn't deal with me having a child.

He slept with a couple people (including a pretty ex) texting more. We got back together after about three weeks of us being broken up even though we were around each other all the time.
I got let go and I saw that he texted a girl from work the day after I got fired. I confronted him about it. He said he didn't know why he texted her that it seemed like something to do because he had to ask about his schedule. But that it wouldn't have went anywhere. I asked if he wanted an open relationship but he said no because he wouldn't want me doing the same. I've seen him texting and talking to two other ones.
I asked him what he was doing. If he really wanted a relationship with someone else or what. He said it was just talking and running into each other at work. Said I was who he loved and what he wanted. That it was just conversation that he did it for excitement.
I asked him if I wanted him to join a dating app if he would for me. He asked why? I told him if it was just conversation and flirting. He could do that. He said he deleted stuff like that a long time ago and that he didn't need them. So I asked if "the endgame really was to sleep with her." (Because that to me sounds like he actually likes this person and really wants to persue her.) He told me the endgame was to be 89 sleeping with me.
But I asked him once more before work if he actually wanted to have sex with her. If it went that far if he would not. He said "What do you want me to say?" Then he replied "Yes. I would fuck her. And then I'd leave her alone. And she'd leave me alone."

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Do the feelings really go away?

Do You think you ever stop liking/loving someone.. or are those feelings just put away or aside? I'm not talking complicated marriages just simple relationships and dating.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is doing long distance worth it?

So my boyfriend and I are 17 and our parents are very orthodox and will never let us marry each other, ever. They don't even know we're in a relationship. School's ending soon and it's the only place we get to see each...

Anonymous

(25-29)

She wants a break from "relationship" stuff?

She said I was annoying her, she then said she wanted to stop talking (we are long distance for 5 months now but she will be moving back here soon) , she said she didn't love me (via text she wasn't able to say it on...

chadmeme

Xper 4 Age: 28

Girl's Behavior

Girls, Married working women, how do you feel about the men you work with?

I get along well with others. Especially women, it's been that way since I was young. That said, some of my recent female co-workers and I have been becoming close friends, talking a lot about our marriages, spouses,...

SEntertainment

Xper 5 Age: 34

Girlfriend has commitment issues... is there anything I can I do?

Ok so we've dated before for about 2.5 years & then took a 3 month break (work & distance) always kept in touch we just couldn't physically see each other. I don't know if I'd say we "broke up" but rather it was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Why Be Good When You Can Be Bad?

I’ve stumbled upon a MyTake on here titled “ I’m a ‘’Good Girl’’ in This Day and Age ’’, and I thought it would be appropriate to share the opposite side of this. The topics that the Anon author tackles are sex and...

JulieXO

Editor Age: 29

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Is he joking or what?

So me and this guy are talking a lot. He said one time to me that he doesn't want a relationship because he has been Hurt pretty bad in the past. But still i kinda get testing the water vibes? But the thing is; i really...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I'm a "Good Girl" In This Day and Age

So, as my title says i'm what you would describe as a good girl. I know, how boring, but it's true. To be honest it's difficult being a good girl, with everyone either having sex or doing drugs, etc... And here I am doing...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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